about six months ago, i contracted genital herpes. i have done LOTS of research thru the net, and asked my nurse mother lots of questions. the thing is... everyone says something different!!!

i have been having protected sex with someone, and they show no symptoms. the thing is, i have not been honest about it with him. i don't let him perform oral sex on ME, but i'm just worried that i've already infected him. that's something that will totally devestate me for one, but i also am not ready to fess up to him. i would hate me if i were him. ugh. i dunno what i should do here.