i LOVE that song!!!!!!!!!!!!!! aaaahh the days where music was real and not just "baby baby baby oooooh" lol

 anyway::::::

was i in love?:  many many many times... i don't look it but i'm a romantic. i'm in love with love and the thought of the everlasting prince charming who will drive me with his motorcycle.  i was in love with one guy at a time or a few!  ooh i remember high school when i thought "oh how cute is he..*looking at another guy*...omg that guy is way hotter than him!"

how long were you together?:   most of them- 0 (just sweet dreams),  one for a month or 2,  and my current one is almost 6 months (hurrayyyyyyy ) 

how did i find out? that i was in love? after a few dates with the current one...  and love well much later after a month i realized YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  it was the epiphamy of the millinium. someone who asked me "what do you think is love?" and i said what i think and she said "well is that how you feel towards him?" i quietly said...yes when she replied "th love him"....and i thought for a minute and was like "omg i do love him!!".  yup ^_^

do you think there is a difference?  definitely!!!!! from what i have learned being in love is being infatuated, feeling this huge attraction and somtimes chemistry with the guy.   it can wrongly be mistaken for LOVE when you feel the butterflies and the excitement..  HOWEVER that is not the case...  love makes you feel safe, not terrified...at peace, not at war... when you know you can say anything to the guy (good, mean, with a sweet tone or a loud tone) and he won't walk away,  when you know that if you fall he'll be right behind you,  and when you cry he'll make you laugh/will listen to you vent.