How to stop having an unwanted crush
02-10-2013 09:33 AM
I'm 16 and I think I am starting to have a crush on someone I don't even know (I only spoke to him for like 2 minutes and that's about it). I just can't stop thinking about him. It's just a stupid, meaningless crush but it's driving me crazy. I know it's extremely stupid but I just HAVE to stop thinking about him because last time I had a crush like that (on someone I barely knew and whose attitude is very similar to the new crush) I turned into a completely different person for a while and ended up wishing to die.
What I am basically asking for is some tips to forget about him quickly. It's not going to be too difficult because 1) I don't know him at all, and 2) it's very fresh.
And I know that the fact that I hated myself because of a previous crush doesn't mean it will happen every time I have a crush on someone, but I'm finally starting to find my happy place and I don't want to turn into an obsessed weirdo again, and I KNOW he's not the right guy for me.
p.s. I have no idea why I have feelings for a stranger. It's not because of his looks, he's not that hot.