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chantealexis
Posts: 207
Registered: ‎11-15-2011

help please help

i have nobody all my friends left me for no reason none at all except for one who is too busy for me. i feel like nobody can deal with me. my parents hate me my mother tells me daily. i have nobody to talk to at all about things im so fcked up and i cant do anything about it except sit in my room and cry every day nobody loves me and thats the honest to god truth if i were to kill myself nobody would care. people tell me im annoying and i feel so ugly all the time i have to self confidence i sit in school thinking abotu killing myself becuase of how sad i am all the time. i try to do sports but i end up quitting because i have no motivation to go and i suck i try really hard not to but i just cant. im failing al my classes and i have so much pressure on me and i cant deal with it anymore i want it all to end but i ant bring myself to do it i have nobody to talk to the guidance counselor is a joke how do i get everything to stop i want everything to end 


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Laurenthenerd5
Posts: 15
Registered: ‎01-13-2013

Re: help please help

The most important thing to remember is that things get better. They always do.

Also, you are loved. You are loved so much, and maybe you just can't see it yet. But you are.

In your life, you will probably go through some crap. And there will be times where you feel like this. But there will always be times where you realize that life is amazing and you love people and people love you.

I know that this is what everyone always says, but belive me, it's true.

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animperfectteen
Posts: 40
Registered: ‎02-23-2013

Re: help please help

Don't hesitate to pm me when u just need to talk.

 

I know how you feel, well mostly, my mum reminds me evryday that i was a mistake and my stepdad is just a plain d**k head towards me. Put urself out there...find some friends who know how you feel.

 

Well if you dont succeed with sports try focusing on school more and think about the things you can do when u do great at school and wat u can do after school. Try and get some scholarships ?

 

Trust me u dont want to end it, ive tried twice and I'm lucky to be alive right now. And i realised i am loved just not by the people i have respect for mostly.

 

And you may think the guidance counsellor is a joke but maybe u should talk to him/her when i did i felt way better.

 

 

Well I'm the average teenager with ur average problems :smileyhappy:

 "HAKUNA MATATA!"

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lovelucy7
Posts: 15
Registered: ‎07-11-2012

Re: help please help

Not having a supportive family environment can be really devastating. But you've gotta remember- things get better. If you put your mind to whatever you want to do, you'll see things change and improve in ways you didn't think were possible.

 

I used to feel incredibly dependent on others for my happiness. But once I took a step back, I realized I was actually a lot happier doing my own thing a lot of the time, than forcing myself to see people I didn't necessarily enjoy the company of.

 

I know that's not the complete solution to your problem... all I'm saying is, find something that you are passionate about and likewise you will find a lot more worth in life and yourself. You are probably much more loved than you know and perhaps delving into yourself will help you see how valued you are in life.

 

PM me if you want! I really would love to talk more, if you want to talk to me. :smileyhappy: