Your Body Issues

[chantealexis]

I have two best friends and I recently have been a lot more open (telling them about my cutting, ed, depression, etc..) and my one friend K has been saying the same things. She said that she cut herself and calls herself ugly all the time but she never did before. Me and my other friend C have been getting angry because we feel like shes doing it for attention especially since she posts how much she hates herself and whatnot on twitter where everyone can see it. We feel like if she really felt that way she wouldnt be posting it and feeel like she feels like she needs to have "problems" just because we do. every time we try to tal to her about anything she gets mad. Any advie would help on what we can do.

[flamingoccm]

Wow. Your friend is telling you she's depressed and hurting herself and she feels comfortable enough to do that because you're all being open with each other...but you turn around and call her a liar and a fraud? I'm not sure I understand why you think your problems are so much better than hers, but maybe you should show a bit of compassion before you lose a friend. If you then find out that she's lying, you can deal with it then. But maybe if you'd like her to be a friend to you, you should extend the same courtesy.

[chantealexis]

no as in if i say i had a bad day she trys to one up me and say oh my day was worse so actually thats not the situation. whatever we're not friends anymore bc she made fun of me for cutting so lol