Younger Girls

[princess789100]

I recently started getting a crush on this one guy in my grade. The problem is that he was about to ask my bff out but then he didnt because he doesnt think she likes him. I asked her about it and she said she likes him as a friend but she might give dating him a shot. I really like him but she doesnt know. I didnt want to tell her because i didnt want to get between them if they actually did make a good couple. My friend and i have had a few problems recently but we are both trying really hard to fix them. We like being friends and have a good time together. I dont want my crush on him to come between us. I also feel a little bad about myself because of course he likes her and not me. She has already kissed three different guys and im little miss never had a boyfriend and almost in high school. I really like him and would love for us to be a couple. He is like my first sorta guy friend and i want us to be more than friends but im afraid of what that will do to mine and her friendship. Any help and/or advice is appreciated. Sorry it was so long

[mandakim]

if it's rocky between you and your bff now..........it's positively gonna be like a blizzard if you try and get with that guy.....unless she really doesn't like him that way.

if they do go on a date and it doesn't turn out well, ok then make a play for him.

really, you're just gonna have to leave it up to him.

if he wants to ask you out, he will. but in the meantime, let him choose

[princess789100]

Thanks for this. Imma go to school today and see what happens since yesterday i told my friend that my crush was gonna ask her out untill he thought she was mad at him. Maybe i should tell her i like him. But then again maybe not. We have liked the same guy before and we didnt let it come between us when he asked her out.

[princess789100]

Well my crush officially asked her out today. She said she would tell him her answer on friday. She wants to go out with him, she deosnt want to ruin thier friendship. She keeps asking me what she should do. Part of me wants to tell her to say yes that they mighy be a good couple. But part of me wants to convince her to say no. I dont want to tell her i have a crush on him because i dont want to ruin what might be a good couple, but it also hurts me knowing that another one of my big crushes has asked her out instead of me

[mandakim]

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princess789100 wrote:
Well my crush officially asked her out today. She said she would tell him her answer on friday. She wants to go out with him, she deosnt want to ruin thier friendship. She keeps asking me what she should do. Part of me wants to tell her to say yes that they mighy be a good couple. But part of me wants to convince her to say no. I dont want to tell her i have a crush on him because i dont want to ruin what might be a good couple, but it also hurts me knowing that another one of my big crushes has asked her out instead of me

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I know how you feel but youre doing the right thing By not telling her. 

Let them date and see what happens. They might hit it off and be great....and they also might not want to date again. and like if that happens, youre free to do what you want without upsetting anyone

good luck

[princess789100]

Thanks. She hasnt told him yes or no yet but i think she is going to say yes

[mandakim]

well at least you'll find out soon if they make a good couple or not.

i hope for your sake they don't lol

ot...............i love country music too it's my total favourite music.

theres only one radio station where i live that plays it cause pretty much nobody here likes it

[flamingoccm]

I think you should be the bigger man here. He likes her, she likes him (or thinks she certainly could). Why would you even try to get in between that? Especially when you know he doesn't look at you in that way. I mean, that totally sucks for you and I get that...but you know how they both feel about each other. 

Let them sort out their thing. If it doesn't work and you still like him, go for it. You can't hold her life experiences against her just because yours aren't the same. 

[princess789100]

Ok first of i dont know how much he likes her or if he might like me or not because hes not exactly the easiest person to read. And secondly part of the reason me and my friend were having issues was because she started hangin around people who do drugs and act like sluts. Only her closest friends know how much that changed her. She might just be saying she likes him so he will ask her out. She has done that four times now to get a bf. Im not sure if she is doing it for that reason or if she actually likes him. Im trying to move on from she did since she isnt hangin out with them anymore. But i still dont want to see her use him like that if that is what she is doing. He is a good guy and doesnt deserve to be treated like that. I am not saying that is for sure what she is doing. Thats part of why im torn.

[princess789100]

ok well my friend was asked out by a different guy and she told my crush no. im kinda happy about that because she is with her crush and my crush is single, but know he isnt really talking to me or any of my friends anymore. imma try to fx that when i invite him to my b-day party on the nineth. i hope he will come but i dont know because its the first day of spring break and most poeple where i live go to Mexico over spring break since they are mostly all from Mexico. I live in south eastern new mexico