Younger Girls

[missflower321]

Okay, so I am 13 and me and my boyfriend have got really close. We have been going out for nearly 4 months and have had make out sessions that have only gone as far as him touching my ass. And as I'm 13 I know I can't have sex and don't want to, but it has got to the point where I think of getting closer to him and I can't control it. So I dunno what I can do, help would be useful(: thanks guys <3

[erinb]

You can give him a handjob or oral sex. If you end up doing mutual masturbation just becareful where he ejaculates or if you or him have sperm on your hands and he touches your vagina. Those things can swim up inside and you can get pregnent even if you dont have sex. so just best to leave your pants on and please him if you wanna be totally safe

[luv2duv]

The best thing is to give him a handjob. Guys really like that. I wouldn't give him a blow job because you might get cum in your mouth and that could be a problem for you. 

[luv2duv]

I am also a virgin, but I have given blowjobs. The reason I say it could be a problem is every time I do it the guy wants to  cum in my mouth. The problem is do you let him or not. For me it depends on what kinda mood I'm in. Sometimes I have really liked it and other times I feel like gagging and throwing up.

[Forestgump]

Hey, Im 13 too & yeah dont have sex.. I did it & I was stupid, no I didnt get pregnet thats a good thing,but I made a bad decision.. but dont you think its a little bit to early? Tell him to wait an Year. My boyfriend & I had sex when I we turned a year & a month but yet it was a stupid decision. Im glad im not the only one out there.

[pinkheart]

A lot of couples decide on limits, like going as far as performing oral on each other.  The great thing about that is that after you orgasm, your desire for sex decreases for a while and you usually feel satisfied.  One way is once he goes down on you or you go down on him, try to clean up and get around other people as fast as you can so you dont do through with your urge to have sex.  What you are feeling is natural and it happens to all of us, just some of us deal with our urges in differnet ways.

Hope that helps.

[naughtylicious]

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missflower321 wrote:
Okay, so I am 13 and me and my boyfriend have got really close. We have been going out for nearly 4 months and have had make out sessions that have only gone as far as him touching my ass. And as I'm 13 I know I can't have sex and don't want to, but it has got to the point where I think of getting closer to him and I can't control it. So I dunno what I can do, help would be useful(: thanks guys <3

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mutual masturbation is a great way. Get him to go down on you. Its a great feeling. If you both want to do oral sex then use the 69. That way you both enjoy the sexual sensation at the same time and it is such an awesum experience. I had sex very early, almost your age when I started. I was extremely comfortable with it. I dont regret it one bit. It just felt good. I am a confident person and I feel my sexuality is my own business and no one can tell me when I should or should not have sex. But I was ready and I was going to have sex no matter what.

[pinkheart]

I think mutual masturbation would help but its just hard to not want to go the whole way once you start.