When Girls Like Girls

[alyciadanielle]

I have a girlfriend of 2 years, I love her and we have been through so much. I have an issue, I cheated on her, more than once, with another girl. Not sex, just kissing, but I still consider that cheating. Anyways, This girl and I never talk anymore, I have one class with her, and that's about it. I find myself creeping on her ffacebook constantly, and always staring at he in class. I really want her, again. I want to be with her, and I'm pretty sure she wants to be with me. I can't do anything about it though because the girl I'm currently with, I live with.. I just want to see her again. I can't wait for break to be over just so I can see her again. I don't want to her my current girlfriend, what do I do??

[The_Doctor95]

Dearest friend in distress,

You have to say how you feel to the girl you like, and the one you're with right now. SItting and hoping/praying that this girl will catch on to your inner thoughts, never works: only in the movies..lol. You sound like a girl that just wants to be happy with out hurting anyone's feelings at the same time. Jsut remember, keeping in those feelings will hurt more than being honest about them. Are you comfortable with the fact that you like somebody else? Are you ready for rejection? Those are the two biggest questions you must ask yourself. At the end of the day, you're not a bad person for wanting someone else, but you may need to work on your commitment issues. Otherwise, you're gonna sulk over the girl you love, and be in a empty/fake relationship with the girl you're with now. 

[alegnatm]

You need to break it off with your girlfriend, it's nit fair to her if you continu the relationship when you really want someone else. Telling her the truth, even though it might hurt her is the right thing to do. Arrange to live someplace else u til you can find aa new place. the longer you let this go thI harder it is going to be to tell her