What's On Your Mind?

[ASM1997]

Lately I haven't been happy in my relationship. When we first started talking, he was so sweet to me and called me beautiful. Now I'm lucky if I ever hear it  and he even insults me from time to time. He's also very stuck on himself. If I ever try to talk about me, he always changes the conversation back to him. Lastly, I'm in a long distance relationship so you'd figured he would want to talk me a lot. But no, he usually texts a couple of words like he doesn't put any effort in and I always have to plan to meet up. The hard part is when he is sweet and tells me that he loves me, it makes me feel like I'm special to him and this is my first serious relationship so it would be hard for me to break up with him. Please help

[mandakim · Accepted solution]

Try talking to him and ask him why hes changed so much. Maybe hes got other stuff on his mind.

if he hasnt got a really good reason, i think it would probably be better to split up. A relationship is two sided and if he cant be bothered keeping his side going, youre better off without him 

[First Ladi97]

um ..wow he is a tool i mean does he look at his self int he mirror?

[DreamingUnicorn]

you shouldnt be with someone who is only going to bring you down. You deserve better than that.. It seems like hes not really into the relationship.. tell him and see what he says .. hope this helps.