What's On Your Mind?

[bebeswagger]

 I know this might sound stupid to some people, I have to meet up at a reunion with these people next week who always said I would be short,weak,and way to ugly.How do I prove them wrong? Grow taller(without wearing heals ) l?look hot n sexy ?And not let my self esteem stop me from speaking?

[bebeswagger]

Please help , desperate

[mandakim]

wow you've got some really nice friends there

can you get your hair done or maybe get a new dress or something?

seriously though, the biggest thing you can do for yourself is to be self confident. tell yourself that you're beautiful, that you're gonna have a good time at the reunion and everyone will see how wrong they were when they made those horrible comments to you.

a confident, happy, outgoing girl in an old dress will always win out over an unconfident girl wearing a brand new dress.

[bebeswagger]

But how though I lost my confidence in the 5th grade n now I'm a softmore

[mandakim]

check out this page here

it's got some good advice

and don't worry.......you'll get through the reunion and make them all eat their words

[bebeswagger]

Tried tht before guess I have some serious problems ,
Congrats on being the most hearted <3

[mandakim · Accepted solution]

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bebeswagger wrote:
Tried tht before guess I have some serious problems ,
Congrats on being the most hearted <3

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when you talk to yourself it's not enough to just say the words, you have to make yourself believe them. i guess it's not easy if you've got low self esteem but seriously........you're heaps better than what those "friends" said.

i know you can do it.......all you have to do is convince yourself

[bebeswagger]

Thank you I'll let you know how it turns out

[mandakim]

cool i'd love to know how it goes..........and how bad they feel when you totally blow them out of the water

[morningmist1997]

It's not stupid my advise it doesn't matter what you wear its all about self confidence. Look at the stars of today.....Katy Perry died her hair electric blue and wore cupcakes as a shirt it was weird as crap but you know what she rocked it and mow I see girls everywhere with that color hair. I know sometimes it's hard to be confident but wanna know a secret? Confidence is like a fake hand bag if it's faked well enough no one can tell the difference between fake confidence and real confidence! So wear what makes you feel good and walk into that reunion with your head held high show those people that no matter what they call you they can't pin you down. Hope this helps