What's On Your Mind?

[carley1128]

You think you know what you're doing, but you later look back on it, you didn't know what  you were doing. i didn't know what I was doing. A simple knock on my window changed everything. A year ago did you think you would be the way you are now? i ask myself this all the time & i say no. I know i'm not a bad person for what i did, but i am upset with myself for letting him come through my window, come back into my life, have full control of my emotions yet again. i loved him, I still do. But now it;s not just some simple love, he has that part of me i'll never get back. 

[stayclassy · Accepted solution]

That part he has of you that you'll never get back... you don't need it back. It's part of the process of growing up. Sometimes you give yourself/your heart to the wrong people and those wrong people shape your future decision making, it's your choice whether it shapes it for the better or for the worse.

I have zero regrets. Ok I am sort of working through one regret right now (some decisions I made in the past about school) but otherwise I do not regret. Regrets do NOTHING for you. When you feel you are starting to regret something, think about it, learn from it, find a solution, and push away the regretful feelings. We have ALL picked the wrong guy at one point in time. We have all been hurt and said it wasn't "some simple love" and still found something MUCH better. Now that I look back, I think... wow, glad I had the wrong guy(s) so now I can appreciate the amazing guy I have. Plus you should learn to avoid the bad qualities those wrong guys had. Just take it as part of the learning process.