What's On Your Mind?

[IsaBt]

Ok, so this is what has happened in just a day. As usual, I went to class the last day before Christmas holiday. One of my best friends, let's call him G, came and told me that everyone said that my crush, lets call him J, was in love with me. No one knew I liked him, and I was really surprised because I thought J liked another girl. At that moment, everything was perfect.

But later in the same day, I was talking with G.And suddenly he told me that he liked me too. WOW. So this is the problem, if now I go with J, I will loose my friendship with G completely, and if I don't... well, I'll never know the end of this story. Also I'm not really sure if J likes me, so maybe if I tell him I do I'll loose my friendship with both J and G...

So tell me Gurls, what would you do in my place? Cause now I just feel like ASDFGHJKL

[alice_doll · Accepted solution]

Just tell your best friend that you don't have feelings for him. If he's really your best friend, he won't stop being friends with you just because you didn't want to date him. If he got mad, I would tell him: "Would you really want me to date you if I don't actually like you back?". I can't imagine that being a very happy relationship.

Instead, he should be happy that you'd be with someone you do like.