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12-30-2012 06:26 PM
You're so beautiful no matter what people say about you.
You are bold and strong enough to get through the toughest situations.
You are the one who will change who everyone else is around you for the better.
Don't try to be anyone else but you. They're already taken.
Don't put yourself down because you think someone else is "prettier" than you; you have the biggest heart out of us all.
Don't take all the information from magazines saying that only only size any girl should be is a "2".
Anyone can be "pretty". PRETTY IS NOT ENOUGH.
You are straight up GORGEOUS! (:
Those girls talking about you, yeah, they're just jealous about how awesome you are.
Please, please, PLEASE, don't ever think that taking your life is the only solution. The hard times will pass and make you a stronger person.
There may be pain in the night, but joy comes in the morning.
Another thing I want to say.... Please don't cut yourself. I know you may think it's the only way to get rid of the pain, but it becomes a scar to show how vulnerable you were at that point in time. Plus! It's not attractive to most people. It's not pleasing to hear that someone cut themselves because of pain; it's more painful after you cut because you physically harmed yourself. There is other ways to get your pain out. Before you EVER think of cutting, look at the people who care about you. Would they like to see that you were weak? :c
I love you all with all of my heart, and I am very pleased to be on a website with girls who are so supportive of one another. Thank you c:
~ Caitlyn :3
12-30-2012 08:31 PM
I couldn't put that. I don't want people to be encouraged to make decisions like that.
Honestly speaking: the reason I'm not going to put that down because you should try with you very best, even with not much, to forgive the people who have hurt you. Even IF they have scared you.
I'm trying my best with that right now because of my brother, and I don't want others to think of me as a hypocrite.
12-30-2012 10:53 PM
Brother is family, boyfriend is not. And we can't help others if they don't want to help themselves-- they only drag us down further.
I'm talking about emotionally and physically abusive men along with cheaters etc etc and women thinking they will change or "things will be different this time."
Don’t let your wounds make you become someone you’re not.
12-30-2012 10:59 PM
Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to put yourself in a position to be hurt again. You don't have to forget.
You can forgive someone for what they have done. They don't have to ask for it, but you can let yourself forgive them, so you can let go of your pain and be a happier person for it.
03-30-2013 11:00 PM
omg thanks for the thing it makes me feel better considering i always do the whole 'omg that girl is so much prettier than me' thing it makes feel better knowing that i shouldnt and im probably not the only one doing so thanks for your inspiring words!
03-31-2013 06:26 AM
This just totally made my day!!! You made me smile so much!
Thank you for posting that, I imagine it made a lot of gurls on here very happy.
Those words are soooooooooooo true.
If everybody lives like that, then the world would be a happy place.