What's On Your Mind?

[englishr0se]

Me and my boyfriend are both virgins, and are going to have sex for the first time soon. I'm going to go on the pill and want to use a condom, but he doesn't think its necacerry. Help?

[mbeliebs]

Deff. use a condom! Your boyfriend may be thinking that sex doesn't feel good with a condom on. He's wrong. Condoms provide lubrication which makes it easier to enter the vagina. For the girl, it feels just the same. I suggest Trogan, because they test each condom and are the most reliable. If he thinks it won't feel good, try going for the ultra-thin kind. If you are into giving blow-jobs after interocurse, I reccomend a flavored condom so you don't taste latex. Use a condom everytime! Better safe than sorry!! Hope this helps!

-Marilyn

[boomtiing_ox]

USE THE CONDOM.

your smart for wanting to be extra protected..his probably saying that because he thinks it'll "take the feeling away".

[MK2895]

Remember that condoms aren't just for birth control, they protect against STD's and STI's. (Not 100%) Always always use one. Don't let anyone talk you out of it.

[stayclassy]

The pill doesn't take effect right away and you are not used to taking it on time every day so it's still unreliable. Use a condom for now.

[flamingoccm]

Well, does he have a plan for if you get pregnant? If not, he should probably stick to the condom. There's a reason you should use two forms of birth control. 

Birth control isn't perfect...generally user error...especially since you're just starting it. You're definitely better safe than sorry.

[supercilious123]

Unless you WANT to explain to your parents how you don't know how your pregnant and on the pill NO.  ..OKAY... Now just because you are on the pill doesn't mean you can't get pregnant. a condom is the most safe way to go. PLEASE STAY SAFE.

[claire_2007]

He needs to wear a condom. If he loves you he will

[crystalxoxo]

USE IT! you can never be too safe!

[lucidkitty]

wrap it before you tap it