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WiseGurl
euro_dancer14
Posts: 1,205
Registered: ‎11-17-2011

Swollen Vaginal Glands???? or STD? HELP!

Hello everybody gurl.com has changed sooo much since I last logged in but I hope I'm posting this in the right place.... :smileyhappy:

 

I just recently lost my virginity on saturday during these activities I performed oral sex (using a condom) and engaged in other foreplay (receiving oral) I later ended up engaging in penetration sex which lasted for a pitful 40 seconds (possiblly less) tuesday i decided to not wear any underwear in some jeans fairly dirty jeans of mine i was in a rush and didnt have any clean clothes. At work I noticed a irritating burning sensation but nothing itchy  i figured the lent in my jeans were irritating my vagina so i went home bathed in warm water and put on clean underwear and clean clothes

 

later tht night i looked inside of my vagina and it was nearly swollen shut by the morni.ng it had gone down alot but was still irritated and swollen. I began researching my symptoms online and wound up looking at herpes the only problem with tht is i dont have any open lesions or puss only a little bit of discharge tht is similar to chunky baby spitup my vagina and the discharge has absolutle has NO SMELL its acually the freshest is been in a while

 

out of a 10 I would give the pain I was feeling the first day a 5 the second day i would give it a 3-4 and this morning it was a 2-3 until i started examining it which ofcourse irritated it a little bit my vagina isnt any more red/pink than it usually is

 

I even had my older  sister look inside of my vagina and she said she didnt see anything tht looked like herpes

 

My vaginal hopening is just pretty swollen on both sides what could this be? thankyou....btw i have a check up on tuesday

WiseGurl
euro_dancer14
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Re: Swollen Vaginal Glands???? or STD? HELP!

IMPORTANT DETAIL I FORGOT TO ADD....My sister pointed out tht if it was herpes then it was from the oral sex i received but the thing is we made out the entired night and i havent gotten any types of cancher *spell check* sores or cold sores on my mouth....there could have possibly been sores on his scrotums tht his my vagina but in tht case i should have been expeiencing tht on my mouth aswell because during foreplay my mouth was sucking on them ( I apologize for the content) so if he had herpes shouldnt i have evidence on my face aswell?

NewGurl
Tempskya
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Registered: ‎01-19-2013

Re: Swollen Vaginal Glands???? or STD? HELP!

If you are still having problems, I would go to the doctor and get it cultured.  Mucous membranes, like the mouth and vagina, sometimes get infections that wouldnt pass througn intact skin.  I would also ask the guy if he has had any signs or symptoms (`19+ years nurse)

WiseGurl
euro_dancer14
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Registered: ‎11-17-2011

Re: Swollen Vaginal Glands???? or STD? HELP!

thankyou and yes i have a check up on tuesday ...and i also  asked the guy and he said tht hes been check and gets check ups monthly and he tht he doesnt have anything....its going down now and its only been three days....from what my research tells me the first outbreak of herpes doesnt go down until 10 to 12 days hopfully this is just a scare I'll keep you updated

A Gurl to Trust
flamingoccm
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Registered: ‎11-15-2011

Re: Swollen Vaginal Glands???? or STD? HELP!


euro_dancer14 wrote:

Hello everybody gurl.com has changed sooo much since I last logged in but I hope I'm posting this in the right place.... :smileyhappy:

 

I just recently lost my virginity on saturday during these activities I performed oral sex (using a condom) and engaged in other foreplay (receiving oral) I later ended up engaging in penetration sex which lasted for a pitful 40 seconds (possiblly less) tuesday i decided to not wear any underwear in some jeans fairly dirty jeans of mine i was in a rush and didnt have any clean clothes. At work I noticed a irritating burning sensation but nothing itchy  i figured the lent in my jeans were irritating my vagina so i went home bathed in warm water and put on clean underwear and clean clothes

 

later tht night i looked inside of my vagina and it was nearly swollen shut by the morni.ng it had gone down alot but was still irritated and swollen. I began researching my symptoms online and wound up looking at herpes the only problem with tht is i dont have any open lesions or puss only a little bit of discharge tht is similar to chunky baby spitup my vagina and the discharge has absolutle has NO SMELL its acually the freshest is been in a while

 


There are a ton of things this could be related to. Some women get a yeast infection when they have sex. His mouth is FULL of bacteria and going commando in dirty jeans (along with the sweat that obviously would have come with that, so that could be the culprit--BV (Bacterial vaginosis or a yeast infection)...Or if you didn't have enough lubricant with the sex, it could just be normal irritation from too much friction. 
P.S: Lint is what is in your jeans. Lent is something completely different lol.

 

However, given the "chunky baby spitup" discharge, I'm guessing it's a yeast infection. It's certainly not herpes considering you have NO symptoms of herpes whatsoever, and you used a condom, AND he'd probably tell you if he had it. 

 

Take some motrin (or your anti-inflammatory of choice) for the pain/swelling and bring it up with your doctor on Tuesday.

WiseGurl
euro_dancer14
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Re: Swollen Vaginal Glands???? or STD? HELP!

hahaha! i didnt notice tht typo lol thanks so much i actually looked up BV but ignored it because I usually jump to the worst thing possible. I also have bad news i now noticed tht both of my outer lips have become a little tender and raw now burning a little bit when i pee i still havent noticed any red bumps only tiny bumps on my outer lips tht probably came from the excessive baths ive been taking I am praying that it is a yeast infection!.....These last five days have been mortifying because i dont know whats goin on down there.....he also fingered me and im pretty sure he scratched me down there worsening the situation...im not quite sure if "worsening" is a word but you catch my drift haha

A Gurl to Trust
flamingoccm
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Re: Swollen Vaginal Glands???? or STD? HELP!


euro_dancer14 wrote:

hahaha! i didnt notice tht typo lol thanks so much i actually looked up BV but ignored it because I usually jump to the worst thing possible. I also have bad news i now noticed tht both of my outer lips have become a little tender and raw now burning a little bit when i pee i still havent noticed any red bumps only tiny bumps on my outer lips tht probably came from the excessive baths ive been taking I am praying that it is a yeast infection!.....These last five days have been mortifying because i dont know whats goin on down there.....he also fingered me and im pretty sure he scratched me down there worsening the situation...im not quite sure if "worsening" is a word but you catch my drift haha


OMG. Deep breaths girlfriend! When you hear hoofbeats, think horses, not zebras. Don't jump to the worst thing possible, because all the other perfectly reasonable things are SO much more likely! 

 

No matter what it is, bathing excessively won't help it. In fact, that could be making it worse. The burning sensation when you pee could be a UTI, but it could also just be from all that soap. Your vagina is just super irritated right now, so take it easy down there! 

 

You have an appointment in two days. You'll be just fine.