Relationship Issues & Advice

[pelletier101]

i have been in a long distance relationship for over a month now and i like him alot and ik he likes me he tells me how he wants a future with me. we talk text and skype and i love talkin to him he means alot to me but i dont know how to tell my family. i know they well not be very accepting of him . and i want him to meet them before i tellthem but currently that cant happen. so i dont know what to do .. im so confused i dont know what todo advice please

[russianred]

It's only been a month. Give it time, lots of time. Don't rush things.

[pelletier101]

thats how i feel but he wants me to tell my family and he wants to put it on fb buut idk he told so many people so i feel bad .. but he doesnt understand how my family is ..i feel bad and i feel like he accepts it but doesnt understand where im coming from

[ryvb3]

Out of curiosity, have you guys met before face2face? Or did this start as a long distance relationship?

[stayclassy]

Have you met in person?

[pelletier101]

started long distance  and no

[ryvb3]

It sounds like you're having doubts about where this relationship is headed. As much you like the guy and he likes you, that's all there is.

It's only been one month so I agree with the not rushing into anything. 

Again another question: you say you skype - does that mean the webcam thing, or just typing?

[pelletier101]

we webcam and type or both sometimes it depends

[stayclassy]

I would wait on telling your parents about him because it doesn't sound very serious.

I don't think you should change your Facebook status either because well.. people will ask you questions like "have you met in person" and won't take your relationship seriously when you answer "no". How old are you? And how old is he?

[pelletier101]

thats kinda how i feel  about people not thinking its seriouse but ive never felt this way about a guy idk what it is about him and im 17 hes 18