Relationship Issues & Advice

[____EH]

I feel bad for getting pissed off about this, but I hate seeing my boyfriend tweet about celebrities or other girls, or even mention it to me. Of course I understand we're human and find other people attractive but is it really necessary to say things like "damn my baby ___ or that you'd leave who you're with to be with that person for a day? I don't think so. I don't know maybe I'm crazy.. But I'd like to hear other girls point of view on it, or how I should handle the situation. Thanks.

[Bmamaris]

I understand were your coming from my bf used to talk like that to me and he would brag about his old sexual partners. You have the right to be pissed off. Gust talk to him about it and find out why he dose it. Mine didn't know that it bothered me tell I told him. Explain to him how it makes you fell and go from there.

[AriannaKay]

Ok first of all, if that's a picture of you in your signature then you are GORGEOUS!!! Why would he even be looking at other girls when he's got you??

I'd say you have a right to get annoyed. I agree with the above poster that you should talk to him about it, because maybe he doesn't know it's bothering you. It does seem odd if he jokes or comments about wanting to be with someone else for a day, even if it is a celebrity. I understand those comments every now and then, but if this is something he's doing all the time then you have a right to bring it up.

[____EH]

I don't know if that will work, as he thinks I'm always trying to pick fights, but thanks it's worth a shot.

[____EH]

Yes that's me, thank you so much. He's always telling me how "lucky" he is to be with me but unfortunately I've been catching a lot of stuff like this from him lately. Especially since we got into a major fight last week and stopped following each other on twitter. Sadly he knows how I feel about things like this but continues to do it. I don't necessarily want to say anything because I'm sure it will cause another fight.

[alegnatm]

One of my Ex's used to come home from work and talk about how the girls looked, and he would like all these Facebook pages  where all the girls were wearing next to nothing, and he would look through the pictures while I was in the room with him and comment and share them so people could see he was doing it.

We got into a lot of fights about it and he didn't understand until I started doing it back, I changed the wallpaper on my phone to a hot guy, posted pics of hot guys on facebook, and I would talk about guys that I found attractive in front of him. Eventually he got what I was doing and he knocked it off.

[____EH]

Hm that seems to be a good idea, I'm sure he'd get a taste of his own medicine if I were to do that lol.

[alegnatm]

I am not usually the type to condone to going out of your way to do things to upset your man on purpose, but some guys just don't understand why we feel a certain way about things or why stuff upsets us until they experience it for themselves.

[____EH]

Of course, I agree. Thank you.

[Megstar]

It used to bug m when my boyfriend did things like that early in the relationship but then I realised I did it too and he obviously loves you if he's with you. I don't care anymore unless it's someone we know personally.