Relationship Issues & Advice

[Mila2]

.I have babysitting flyers downtown with my pic and so I got this text. And he faked he needed a babysitter for his little bro until finally he was like honestly I just texted you cuz I thought u were cute. HE IS 21!!!! I look older for my age so he was confused until I said I was 14. BUT HE STILL KEPT FLIRTING WITH ME. Like "what kinda guys do u like?" And "I bet u have a boyfriend anyways" and "would you ever date or hook up with an older guy?" Like WTF his younger bro goes to my skool! By cant he find a girl his own age especially being somewhat good looking. WHAT DO I DO? I am kinda interested but how can I date him without my parents knowing? Hahahah

[PowPowTheMental]

Eerr thiis a situation... well is the guy worth the risk? I mean get to know him a little more. I've dated older guys but onlyafter I really gotten to know them for who they are and stuff. Like he might just want to be with a younger girl.. This is cheesy but go with what you desire most.

[d0rky89]

That was very dangerous! Why would you post your picture on an ad? Instead of 21 he could have been some 40+ year old

[PowPowTheMental]

I agree with dorky but still there are yiur suggestions to go with. And ty to find a new way to babysit that doesn't include risking your life.

[nycgirly]

Honeslty i dont think you should keep texting ths guy. It's kinda gross that he is 21 and interested in a 14 year old girl. Something just doesnt seem right there. Yes you like older guys buy 21 is way too old

[mandakim]

he's wayyy too old for you. like he's your age plus HALF your age. i'm pretty sure your parents would freak if they knew you were even talking to him let alone thinking of dating him.

putting your pic on the flyer is a pretty risky thing to do too. like every person who sees your advert knows your phone number and what you look like if i were you, i'd be pulling down every flyer you put up. i mean, you don't know who's gonna see them...........there are a lot of creeps out there

[MatildaLove]

First off, please make some new flyers without your picture and get rid of the old ones. People who need you to babysit will not need your picture to know if you are any good at watching their children.

Second, please stop answering this guy. He is 21 years old and him texting a 14 year old is inappropriate. You might be flattered that he is interested in you, but please do not let him try and date you. Send him a message telling him you are 14 and his attention is inappropriate and then don't read or respond to anymore of his messages.

Please be careful!

[shotgunsmile]

I don't think he would be worth your time. I'm sorry but it typically isn't natural or 'right' for a man of that age to look at a 14 year old girl in such a way. He could be a nice guy but he could be talking to you or going after you because you are young and he feels you will be vulnerable. I have dated a lot of older guys when I was young and it never turned out good. Please be careful.

[Mirabay10]

uhm no. Leave this pervert alone! Any "grown" man who is attracted to an underaged teen is mentally ill. I am sorry, but you are a little too young to be dating an guy who can legally drink! This guy is up to no good! The only thing this guy wants is to manipulate you and take advantage of you. He knows that you are mentally not up to his level, so he may try to use this against you. Leave this guy alone pronto! You shouldn't even be trying to date at your age. You need to enjoy being a young girl and not try to grow up too fast! Your time will come. I'm sure if your parents found out, this guy and you will be in a loooottt of trouble!!!

[Mila2]

OMYGLOB, hwen I went downtown all my posters were gone!!!!! DUFUQ. I only put my pic because we live in a really nice, rural town with no sex predators for miles and miles so.....he hasn't texted me since that night Los he doesn't seem to creepy but I am on guard don't worry. I know what he looks like.