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NewGurl
Wahhey-
Posts: 49
Registered: ‎11-16-2011

Tell me what to do...

I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a month, Before we started going out we had been best friends for 3 years and everything was so good! We then started going out and went straight from being best friends to being in a relationship which i now regret as i feel that we rushed in to things as there was no exciting bit in between. At the beginning everything was fine and i couldn't wait to see him... Then about 2 weeks ago the spark completely disappeared which shouldn't happen after being in a relationship for only 3 weeks! He has become very clingy and won't let me go half an hour without asking what i'm doing which i know is because he cares but it's become too intense too soon and i feel smothered! I've told him that i need space and want to just act how we used to and have a laugh but have the relationship status which he then told me what i wanted to hear and continued to act the same. I'm aware that i'm just sounding unappreciative but im fully aware of how lucky i am, how amazing he is and that he's doing nothing wrong but it's too much and i can't take it! I'm 17 and i don't want an intense relationship yet, i just want us to have fun and act like we used to! I've decided that i need to end it but i don't know how to or what to say... Please help me, any advice?

WiseGurl
lovely247
Posts: 15
Registered: ‎12-28-2012

Re: Tell me what to do...

Just be honest with him let him know that you're not ready for a serious relationship and you would like to take things slow for a while or just be friends. I hope this helps
A Gurl to Trust
stayclassy
Posts: 3,905
Registered: ‎11-15-2011

Re: Tell me what to do...

Going from best friends to relationship didn't kill your spark. It's just not working out, you're no longer interested, he's clingy-- just break up with him.


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