Relationship Issues & Advice

[gemilemon]

Me and my best mate were just hanging out like normal and then she told me out of the blue that she is a lesbian but its get worst she was touching me up and then she tried to kiss me she also told me she really likes me and would like to go out with me. She knows I have got a boyfriend and that I am not a lesbian I don't know what to do I haven't spoke to her since that night it happen. 

[flamingoccm]

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gemilemon wrote:

Me and my best mate were just hanging out like normal and then she told me out of the blue that she is a lesbian but its get worst she was touching me up and then she tried to kiss me she also told me she really likes me and would like to go out with me. She knows I have got a boyfriend and that I am not a lesbian I don't know what to do I haven't spoke to her since that night it happen. 

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I think you should tell her that you find her actions to be inappropriate. She knows you're straight and that you're in a relationship. Either one of those things by themselves should have made her decide not to take advantage of you. Tell her that you are flattered that she thinks of you in that way, but that you will never return those feelings. I'd also say that if she really did care about you, she wouldn't have tried to force herself on you and that you would ask that she respect your sexual orientation as much as she would expect you to respect hers.

[gemilemon]

I get what your saying but ever since that happen I haven't talked to her since it happen and I don't know what to do it is so hard to talk to her after what she did to me. 

[AlyssaRenee999 · Accepted solution]

The only way to solve this is to talk to her face to face. I'd do it alone too. But if you don't feel comfortable alone with her just do it at lunch just not where others can hear. Tell her that you don't like her that way but you still want to be friends.

[gemilemon]

It's kind of hard to tell her in school as we both go to college and we are not in the same college and I am to scared to tell her face as it's so hard to even talk to her in text or on the phone I don't know what to do I feel like after this has happen it has recked our friendship. 

[AlyssaRenee999]

Invite her to a lunch out? Or maybe just catch her somewhere if you see her around? It it'll only reck your relatinship if you let it. Anything is mendable though!!

[gemilemon]

I think all I got to do is ring her up and ask her to meet up and then I will just tell her how I feel about what happen and say I don't want this to reck our friendship.