Relationship Issues & Advice

[SecretUnicorn]

Ok wellllll... my boyfriend is amazing. He is extremeellyyyyy good looking and i know for a fact im not the only one who thinks so, nearly all of my friends have liked him at some point or other and hes had about 15 girlfriends already (he's 16) . Weveve been together for just over 2 months and this is his longest relationship so far. When he was single he would go out somewhere and end up kissing random girls and stuff like that, i know it shouldnt annoy me because he doesnt do that now and it was his past but.... the thought of him with another girl turns me stomach inside out. I can be fine and we can just be kissing and ill randomly think about how many other girls hes had kissing his lips and just not want to kiss him anymore. And when we lay in bed together, the fact that i know that there have been so many other girls who've done the exact same thing as me, heard the same words and touched the same places. it just makes me really moody and annoyed..

      I know i shouldnt get annoyed over it and you'know, thats his past im his present etc but i just cant get over it :/ 

[emobabygurl45]

I was feeling the same thing as you I eventually got over it, yes its hard to think about that but you shouldn't even care he'ss your's now right? so why should it matter I have been with my dude for almost 5 months in 4 days and he has been in bed with alot of girl's he is still a virgin. He's came close to losing it but he never did just ignore the past enjoy the present he's with you now not with those other girls trust your instincts gurl like I said forget about the past it may be hard but u'll get past it good luck

[stayclassy]

Truth is, you either get over it or you don't.

He can't change his past. It is what it is. And chances are that in the future you will most likely meet guys who have had experiences before meeting you.

[skaitlin]

Honestly, if I knew that my boyfriend had 15 other girlfriends before me and the longest relationship wasn't longer than 2 months, I probably wouldn't have started dating him in the first place. I am not saying he doesn't deserve to be happy, but he does need to take some time to grow up and learn how to be in a healthy and lasting relationship.

You deserve the best. If you feel like you can't trust him or like this is going to be a constant barrier between you, then you need to decide if you want to try to work it out or walk away. 

The last thing I will say is this, if his track record with girls is what you say it is, then how long do you think the two of you will last?

[mandakim]

sorry, but i think you're just going to end up as g/f number 16.

even though it's all in the past, he seems like a serial flirt, and by the sound of it, he will repeat what he's done before.

i wish you luck if you're really serious about him, but it doesn't look good