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How do I get him to stop???? :/
So there is this guy who come straight forward and told me that he liked me about 2 months ago. But I really don't like him. Well I thought it was over because a few days later he got a girlfriend they were together until about 3 weeks ago. Well now he has started messaging me again saying he thinks IM so beautiful and that if we dated he would treat me like a princess and that he really just wants a chance. I was trying to be nice so I told him somewhat the truth. I told him that I didn't want a relationship because I don't have time for it with school (IM an honors student) plus IM about to start coaching cheerleading so I will be going to school than cheerleadering almost everyday and I don't want to complicate my life more(which is all true). Plus IM more the girl who wants my life in order and I want to be in the right place before I really want to commit which is what he want. Well he replied by saying that he really just wants to go out with me and asked me again. I told him sorry that I wasn't looking for a relationship which is also true. But he said he wished I would just give him a chance. So then he asked if I would just think about it. Then not even 2 hours later he said so do you have an newer yet. I didn't answer him back so then he asked if I would messages him back when I had an answer. IM the type of person who speaks my mind which is why IM totally confused on why IM being so shy and not telling him how I completely feel. He is a really sweet guy and get upset easy so I guess its because of that. IM usually really good with relationships until it comes to me. I don't want to be mean and be like your not my type and I really don't like you because then he is going to ask why. And I really wouldn't be stressing over this except school is about to start back and we have classes together and we hang out with the same people in class so I don't want to go back and not have answered him or have this ended and him bother me and make it hard to learn when this is my favorite class. I really just don't know what to say without being mean, having him ask questions back, or this not be the end of this for good. And I know he sounds like the perfect guy but the thought of ever dating him make me nauseas and it make me want to run and hide even being near him I feel creeper out and feel the need to have someone inebriate us. plus he is on my facebook and everytime he sees im online he starts messaging me and bothering me and i cant delete him cause last time i did that he just refriended me until i readded him so i had to hide my facebook from him
PLEASE HELP ME THIS HAS TO END
Re: How do I get him to stop???? :/
so you don't want to be mean to him..........but like....he's being mean to you by constantly texting and being a pain in the bum. if he won't take no for an answer, i think you're gonna have to be blunt and tell him that you like him as a friend (if you do) but you're really not interested in being anything other than friends. tell him he's a nice guy but he's not your type.
if he keeps texting just don't reply
hope i helped
