Relationship Issues & Advice

[panther_fan_07]

Hey all recently one my co workers lets call him Joe(not his real name) has been picking on me and I am wondering if he might like me or not. Here is what he dose.

Well when ever he works with me he always some how finds a way to touch me like pat me on the arm or pat ect and he always tries to make me laugh and be smiles whenever I do. Today I waked to near where was working and was like you know what annyoes me and he came over and put his arm around me and walked with my to my area and said what also today he I was waking to the rest room and he was like(had a smile on his face) ppl tell me I'd make a good husband because I can cook and be said something else but didn't hear him and lastly today when he was in my work area I asked him to see if my friend ever made my coffee for me and he was like yeah and he even brought it to me and he also talks about my perfume too.

so is he just being friendly or what?

[tinyxtrickster]

It seems like a little bit of both. Maybe he is trying to throw out little hints that he might be interested and seeing if you throw any hints back. Or he can just be super friendly that its almost like he is flirting. Pay attention and see if he is like that with other girl co-workers. If he isnt, then hey, get his number and try talking outside of work. If he is, then he is just a friendly guy.

[Aggie17]

Do you like him? It sounds to me like there is a high percentage that he likes you granted that he doesn't do that with the other female coworkers. Dating a coworker can be a big issue, or a non-issue depending on the people. I never dated a coworker, but my close friend did, and it turned from a great job experience into a disaster. Her boyfriend ended up getting fired because he was too focused on PDA and not working. She ended up getting a warning, but only because her boss had a crush on her. Long story short, she stopped dating the excowerker, and her boss asked her out. Realizing it could bring a HUGE advantage to her she considered agreeing even though she didn't like him whatsoever. They didn't end up dating thanks to the grace of God. Anyway... Work was always hectic for her, and she ended up quitting her job. She now works somewhere else and has sworn off any mingling with coworkers.

[panther_fan_07]

I am not sure how I feel I had a  bad experiance with a Co-worker a year ago that said he liked me so I am not sure what to think right now.Anyways I think he might have a girlfriend and if he dose and he;s acting like that I want no part  of it,

[EmilyRachel]

Hello, So sometimes its hard to tell if a guy likes you or not. But from what I can see I think he might. Some guys are just like that. I think that he has a bit of a crush on you, and thats why he shows it. If you like him back then make little hints, it will help him a bit and maybe ask you out. I know I'm not a huge help but I believe he likes you.

Emily. Good luck with 'joe' 

[panther_fan_07]

Thank you guys he picked on me again today and he also gave me a hug...and he told me he likes picking on me and he don't know why haha...either way I'll be his friend.