Relationship Issues & Advice

[maddie7210]

Please bare with me, this is a sort of complicated situation(arent they all?). About 2 months ago, the guy I like started having problems with his girlfriend. One of which was that she bit him constantly. I know that sounds wierd but its not funny at all. She left bruises and he bled in spots, in he got an infection in his arm from one of those bites. I didn't know her very well, and every time I, or anyone at all, tried to be nice to her she'd shoot us dirty looks and stand next to him with her arms crossed. About a week later, they broke up, and right after it happened, she decided that she wanted to be friends with me. At first I tried to ignore the fact that stared me straight in the face. I live 3 blocks away from her ex, and she always wanted to come over to hang out with other guys in the area who she KNEW were friends with him. I didn't say anything because I don't like being mean to someone when it's not my place to tell them whats right and what isn't. But about a week & a half ago, he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. About two days later, my next door neighbor (and best friend) started dating my boyfriends ex. Today at school I found out that she's biting him now, hard enough that he can't move his arms without it hurting. Not only that, but my own boyfriend can't come over because he doesn't want to be here when she's around (for obvious reasons). I love my best friend, and I don't want to say no to him. But I don't know this girl, nor do I trust her. Besides, I don't want m boyfriend to think I'm picking his ex's relationship over ours. One other issue, I can't trust my best friend anymore. I know that whatever I tell him about myself or my own boyfriend will go straight to this girl. Plus, I had to hear about those bite marks from other people. He couldn't even tell me himself. It hurts to know that our friendship is falling apart because of some girl with a fat mouth and a biting fetish...

[someoneeee · Accepted solution]

Well the best thing u could do is confront your best friend and tell him everything on your mind and tell him if he tells his girlfriend then the friendship u to have will fall apart and if he choose his girl over u then it's not worth it no matter how much u care for him. It hurts but try u kno? It better then doing nothing.