Relationship Issues & Advice

[kayyxo]

Ok so my cousins boyfriend is really lovely and I have always thought of him as a really pleasant guy. However recently at out latest family gathering I caught him staring at me from across the room multiple times and he was finding excuses to touch my arm and stuff. Obviously this is really weird for me and it was pretty uncomfortable. In the past he has complimented me on what I had been wearing etc but that all seems normal right? I don't know... help? 

[foreveryours15]

dont make a big deal out of it, maybe ur just over analyzing things, and u dont want to ruin their relationship by making it too big a deal. if you feel uncomfortable let him know that what hes doing isnt rly ok with you. if anything  more happens or he tries to go further with you make sure to tell ur cousin 

[tinyxtrickster · Accepted solution]

I agree with the other girl. I think you are over-thinking this. Maybe he was wondering what you were doing, could of been zoned out, or it could of been one of those things were he could of been looking at something near you but wasnt really looking at you. I wouldnt say anything to your cousin. All it will do is ruin their relationship and your relationship with her. If you have nothing to back yourself up with why you think he is being shady with you, then she is going to think you are jealous. If he wanted to touch you, im sure he would of been more hidden about doing it. I think because you are thinking that he has somthing for you, you think he is finding excuses or staring or etc.. when he really isnt. He could just be being nice to you since you are her cousin. Now if he would try pinning you against a wall or smacking your butt, i would say somthing. Its normal and totally nothing to worry about. Just dont think so much into it.