Rape Support

[heartbright]

Well it  happen  when I  was  15  and  best  friend   was  brain  wash   really  bad. That   one day    when  we come back  from  Wal mart I  ask  for   energy   drink ,  He  said"only  if  I  can  touch   your  butt."I  agree  just  to  get  the  energy  drink,but I  thought it  was  weird  that  he  touch  me  like that.   Another time  he  ask   buy  me  sexy  clothes  from   Wal mart and I   was  creeped out  so  I  said   "no",that  day we  went  to  the   movies  and   the  only   way    if  we   can  go if  he  finger  me..   i  didn't  agree   to  do  it  but my friend want  me   to see  the  movie   so  did and  when  the   movie   was  over we  driving   home, and he stopped  aside  at  the  street  to  go  to  mall  I had to anal  sex.  My   friend  begged me  to   do  it     then I  said  "No"!   

   Today  Iam  18   going strong  trying to  forget   it ,but  i can't

[firestorm104]

i'm so sorry, that's horrible. i can tell you from a personal experience that while it's impossible to forget it, it will still get easier, as i'm sure you've found. there are going to be moments when it feels like it's as fresh in your mind as the moment it happened, or you'll just feel flooded with all kinds of feelings for no reason, but there will be many more times in your life that will be better than that, and it won't feel like the biggest part of your mind. stay strong and don't let it define who you are. it's not your fault.

  i'm also 18, you can private message me if you need someone to talk to, or just want to talk about it

[flamingoccm]

There is no statue of limitations on rape, and since you have a witness that can corroborate your story, you'd have a pretty good shot at getting a conviction. Then again, you're "friend"

would be an accomplice to rape as well. 

You could also seek counseling.

[xgirlnomorelef…]

The very first attempt of your friends dad wanting to touch you

inappropiate should of made you go straight to the police

and reported plus you should of went straight to your parents

and /or guardian to report to them what he did i find this story

very fabricated or just a made up story of someone trying to

get his/her gig off

[LilRainbow]

I am so sorry to hear that. I agree that you should have contacted the police, that sound terrible. I think the thing that made me the most upset is that your "friend" helped him do that to you. It's really sick! I hope you arnt friends with that person anymore. I know this is hard for you but I'm also going to agree that these things are almost impossible to forget. I know from experience. I'm sorry that another person on this world had to go through that tragic experience. I hope that you are doing well.

[becky12]

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heartbright wrote:

Well it  happen  when I  was  15  and  best  friend   was  brain  wash   really  bad. That   one day    when  we come back  from  Wal mart I  ask  for   energy   drink ,  He  said"only  if  I  can  touch   your  butt."I  agree  just  to  get  the  energy  drink,but I  thought it  was  weird  that  he  touch  me  like that.   Another time  he  ask   buy  me  sexy  clothes  from   Wal mart and I   was  creeped out  so  I  said   "no",that  day we  went  to  the   movies  and   the  only   way    if  we   can  go if  he  finger  me..   i  didn't  agree   to  do  it  but my friend want  me   to see  the  movie   so  did and  when  the   movie   was  over we  driving   home, and he stopped  aside  at  the  street  to  go  to  mall  I had to anal  sex.  My   friend  begged me  to   do  it     then I  said  "No"!   

   Today  Iam  18   going strong  trying to  forget   it ,but  i can't

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wait...you had ANAL SEX in the street??  and you had never had anal sex before??  and it didnt hurt or you didnt resist or do anything.  He just did it and .. why does this not sound right to me???

and you say your friend begged you to do it.. and the guy was her dad??? wow.. what a story.. and look how everyone jumps the bandwagon and gets sucked in believing this story.  We must all be deluded or naive !!!

[becky12]

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xgirlnomoreleftoutx wrote:

The very first attempt of your friends dad wanting to touch you

inappropiate should of made you go straight to the police

and reported plus you should of went straight to your parents

and /or guardian to report to them what he did i find this story

very fabricated or just a made up story of someone trying to

get his/her gig off

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I agree with you 100%. Fabricated..YES, TOTALLY.

But what amazes me is the way others believe what she has to say. This is how us girls lose all credibility and when there is a genuine problem, no one will care.

Girls wake up ! this is total bulldust. Dont be so gullible and just take such stories with a big big pinch of salt.

Yes rape happens but when girls go about making up such ridiculous stories and others believe them, there is an unnecessary paranoia that prevails.

She probably fantasizes about her friends dad touching her.

[nakkiemusic]

First off! ARE YOU STUPID! Ik im being hard but one thats not a real friend another theres a thing called 911!!!! CALL IT ! In the first place you should of never agreed for him to touch you r butt! To me yu seem desperate yu should of nver did that.