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lunalovegood
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Registered: ‎10-24-2012

Kind of scared, hope I'm over reacting.

So here's the deal. I am freaking out that I am pregnant. My boyfriend and I have had sex probably 5 to 6 times this month. All protected. We ALWAYS use a condom with spremecidial lube, he tries to pull out everything, and I am on birth control which I take everyday at 9. I'm only ever a few minutes late. This month however, I started a new brand of pills because my parmacacy no longer carried my old brand. So now tonight I will be taking my 4th placebo pill and I still don't have my period. I have noticed some dark brown spotting and that is it. So, me being the super paraniod person I am went and bought 3 pregngnacy test. I took one on Sunday (Negative), Last Night (Negative), and this morning like 5 minutes ago (Negative). Not one of them was positive. Any reason for this? is it normal to not be getting my period? 

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starryphoenix
Posts: 6,147
Registered: ‎11-15-2011

Re: Kind of scared, hope I'm over reacting.

Yes. I too had a change in cycle because of birth control and called my gyno to confirm. It does do that.

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flamingoccm
Posts: 4,368
Registered: ‎11-15-2011

Re: Kind of scared, hope I'm over reacting.


lunalovegood wrote:

So here's the deal. I am freaking out that I am pregnant. My boyfriend and I have had sex probably 5 to 6 times this month. All protected. We ALWAYS use a condom with spremecidial lube, he tries to pull out everything, and I am on birth control which I take everyday at 9. I'm only ever a few minutes late. This month however, I started a new brand of pills because my parmacacy no longer carried my old brand. So now tonight I will be taking my 4th placebo pill and I still don't have my period. I have noticed some dark brown spotting and that is it. So, me being the super paraniod person I am went and bought 3 pregngnacy test. I took one on Sunday (Negative), Last Night (Negative), and this morning like 5 minutes ago (Negative). Not one of them was positive. Any reason for this? is it normal to not be getting my period? 


You just changed your birth control. Any time you do that, even though you haven't changed how you take it, there's a change in its effectiveness. I'm surprised they didn't tell you that.

 

However, the other thing that can happen is that you don't get a period. When I switched birth control in December, I didn't get a period for 2 months because I switched birth control in the middle of a month (long story, stupid doctor) and then I didn't get one when I was supposed to in January either. Not pregnant, just the change in birth control.

 

You're fine!

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hotjamale
Posts: 1,340
Registered: ‎11-15-2011

Re: Kind of scared, hope I'm over reacting.

the reason the tests came back negative is because you arent pregnant.

even if you werent on birth control, using condoms correctly plus spermicidal lube is plenty.




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