Older Girls (18+, please)

[pura15]

I just started dating this guy who I always knew liked me. We made out for the first time the last time we were together... and I can't help but think he's maybe a little sexually inexperienced. I've only been with 2 guys, but my last relationship was for 5 years, so I definitely know what I like, and I know a good deal about works (in general terms) for most guys.

The way he kissed was like he was over-eager. I kept pulling back and kissing him softer and more slowly and he kind of got what I was doing. We briefly ventured into inside jeans territory, and I don't know if he was nervous or had never done it before, but though he tried fingering me, he didn't exactly get it inside, just right outside the entrance.

I also had to make the first moves on him up to this point. Grabbing his hand. Kissing him first. We're both 21. I have no problem teaching him if he's up for learning, but has anyone else been in a situation like this? Thanks girls!

[Avencia]

I've been in this situation before. I ended up being ith the guy for 5 monhs before I broke it off. He was really sweet and I liked him a great deal, and I went into the relationship knowing he was sexually inexperienced, I didn't think it'd be a big deal. I realized though that after coming out of my last relationship with a sexually experienced person, that I didn't like the fact that my curent boyfriend wasn't sexually expierenced and I didn't want to take the time to teach him. He understood and we're really good friends now. The fact that you're willing to teach him is pretty cool and I admire you for that, hats off to you and good luck in your relationship! (:

[scottymakura]

Mine and I have been fooling around since September of this year. He lost his virginity to me in november. so he's pretty new too. What i have to keep telling myself is that i just need to tell him where to go and what to do and things. communication, no matter HOW awkward, is key. show him what to do right: "if you do xy, it makes me go crazy" or something like that, not like "you're doing it wrong."

if he's never done it before, you have him in a direct position to make him the ultimate lover according to your pleasures and likes. TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT! teach him all the moves!

likewise if he's never fooled around with a girl before, and you have more experience, you are in a direct position to drive him wild with the various tricks that you know!