Masturbation

[Mka3912]

I have this urge to masturbate so bad, but I feel like it's a sin. Like everytime I do it my whole next day or week is terrible. I fail a test, etc. I blame it on me masturbating so I don't do it for a while but Idk I want to. Am I wrong? Please help?

[PowPowTheMental]

I'm going through the same thing. I think it's because we believe it's a sin it affects us but really masturbation is naturual and you shouldn't feel bad when doing it. Soon or later the sin feeling will fade away so have patience.

[enlightenedgurl]

It is amazing how our society, family, religion etc etc have in some way encouraged and perpetuated this feeling of guilt we have for something so normal and part of our development.

I am not blaming anyone or anything. All I am saying is that false values have been imposed through generations, reinforced by society and cultural / religious norms and beliefs.

Please, we have to get rid of GUILT. It is such a negative, unproductive, horrible feeling / emotion especially for  something so normal  and an aspect of sexual development.

Please dont blame masturbation for what happens in life. Please get rid of those feelings.

Masturbation is perfectly normal and natural. You learn more about yourself and sexuality. It relieves tension and also sometimes can help if you have menstrual pain and cramps.

Just do it and do NOT  feel guilty. Do it as much as you want, whenever you want. IT IS NOT A SIN.

Has anyone told you it is wrong? This is such a bad nasty form of control exercised by religious fools and narrow minded relatives and parents.

So please, break out from those clutches of control and be yourself. What you are doing is responding to your normal physiological development. IT IS NOT BAD. I promise you.

[bunny97]

There's absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating It's healthy: It releases endorphins in your brain that make you feel happy and good and it relieves stress. It can also relieve menstrual cramps if you are on your period. It gives you something to do if you're abstinent, have sexual urges, and don't want to have sex. It's a good way to get to know your body. I was so uncomfortable with my body and my sexuality until I started masturbating, and now it's perfectly familiar and okay to me and it feels SO good to have that with myself. 

So don't feel guilty, masturbating can have lots of benefits towards your health and disposition. Masturbation is not a sin. I guarantee you that more people than you think masturbate.  How old are you? By the time I turned 14, I realized that pretty much EVERYONE masturbates. You're not alone, it's not bad, and don't ever feel that way

[meandlovinit]

I know what you mean! I used to feel this way too, but I have come to accept that masturbating is a part of human life. It actually physically helps you relax! With the whole sin thing, I am religious and I felt guilty but if you think about it, wouldn't god be all for ladies releasing stress and exploring their bodies in a safe way? I hope this has helped!
~M