Masturbation

[escape hunter]

okay so this is embarrasing but i really enjoy masterbating. i do it atleast once a day. maybe ill go a day or two without doing it but thats if im SUPER busy! what i usually do is i rub my clitoris until i reach the point of orgasm. but i know there are other ways and that includes fingering. but im ABSOLUTELY TERRIFIED to put my fingers inside and just do it. im scared to finger and i want to do it myself before i let my boyfriend do it. how do i get over this fear? does it hurt, can i orgasm if i do this? also i dont understand how its pleasureable at all? like whats so good about having something going repeatedly in and out of your hole? i feel the same way about sex btw. any other facts and suggestions are also welcome. im just really scared and confused :/

[Nobody]

Don't be scared, just make sure you're really wet first. And the reason why people do it is because rubbing your G-spot feels amazing and can bring on great orgasms xD

[enginerd]

I used to be afraid of fingering as well.  I just made myself do it a couple of times until I was comfortable with it.  If you decide to try it, start with jut one finger and make sure you are relaxed.  It shouldn't hurt if you are completely relaxed and ready.  If it does hurt, you are probably still tense.

The appeal of being fingered is G-spot stimulation.  Your G-spot is on the front wall of the vagina.  You can stimulate this area by inserting your finger and making a "come hither" motion.  I can't actually reach my G-spot by myself, so I found it with the help of my boyfriend.

That being said, you don't have to try fingering and you don't have to enjoy vaginal stimultion.  Everybody is different and people enjoy different things.  Most women cannot have an orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone.  I would also like to remind you to wash your hands before and after masturbating!