Friends

[LuluLexi]

i have a group of friends i have known since elementary school. we hang out everyday. i would call these girls my friends. its like ive known them forever but i know they are the kind of people who would ditch me. i feel like its happening now. they have ditched other girls in the past. and they dont like the fact that my best friend is two years younger and i spend a lot o time with her. my best friend is like the only person i trust and can tell absolutly anything to without being judged. my friends who are mad at me are the type of girls who call me stupid or laugh because i dont have a boyfriend. my best friend is not a girl like that. i cant imagine life without my bestfriend. but my other friends get pissed at me because i spend so much time with her rather than them, but obviously im going to because she means the world to me. she doesn't judge me like they do. i only have 2 years left of high school with them, how do i just stay neutral with them and not start drama which will stress me out. i know i will always have my bstfriend, but i absolutly hate confrontation and drama. it gives me anxiety. what should i do?

[oneandonly]

I had the same thing happen with a girl I knew in high school that I hung out with on and off since grade five before we went to our official high school. She started getting into all this drama and stupid stuff eventually I made plans to do other things with other people and in other areas of the school so I had an excuse not to hang out with her anymore. Eventually because I was so busy we couldn't spend time together and we just naturally drifted that way. After we finished high school I deleted her off facebook and never bothered texting or calling her. I would suggest doing the same things with this girls such as making plans else where with things they don't take interest in/courses they don't take so you have an excuse to avoid them. If you want to do what I did such as never talk to them after high school while avoiding drama and confrontation do what I did and keep yourself busy with other commitments so you have reasons not to talk to them.