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I met this boy less than a year ago, and we became friends really fast. Like we went from not knowing each other, to never leaving each others sides at school in a matter of like a month. Life was great! Except my boyfriend had major issues with this boy, he was kinda the clingy type. So I was constantly having to break it to this new friend of mine that he had to back off. (which I didn't really want to do but it was that or endless arguments with my boyfriend). Eventually after like the hundredth time of me having to tell him to back off he finally asked me if I could keep a secrete. HE WAS GAY! That made life a million times better because once I told my boyfriend (he doesn't know I ever told him) my boyfriend didn't have issues anymore. Me and this boy hung out all the time, our friendship grew even more. I had graduated high school, so we weren't together in school anymore. I started college, and last time I hung out with him it was around midterms.
Then one night, my supposed gay friend all of a sudden had a girlfriend? WHHHHAATT?! I was confused and hurt, and to top it off, he didn't tell me, facebook did. I confronted him, a fight happened over text messages. I told him that I couldn't fricken care less what sexuality he was, I just was upset over HOW I found out. Like, he couldn't tell me, ANYTHING? The fact that now he's attracted to girls? (now he claims he's a pansexual btw) Or the fact that he liked a girl? That he was going to pursue a relationship with her? I was so upset that night I was in tears. He just claimed he was GOING to tell me, he just forgot.
But whatever, I got over it, our friendship was too important for me to throw it out over something like that. From that night on, he barley talked to me. It seemed like to even get the slightest communication from him I had to text him first. Come my birthday I texted him because well, he hadn't even said happy birthday to me. I wanted to see if I texted him he'd remember. Sure enough he did after he got my text saying hi. To be nice I asked how him and his girlfriend were doing. He told me they were doing good. Good for him, right?
A few days later I got bored and over the world of facebook yet again, I checked up on his profile. Him and his girlfriend broke up on the 23rd? UHMM MY BIRTHDAY WAS THE 27TH! He lied to me again! I didn't confront him this time, I waited to see if he'd tell me. It's been weeks since I found out, his now ex-girlfriend has another boyfriend and still, no text. Not even one saying hi.
What the hell? We were such good friends for awhile there, and now he won't even give me the time of day. I got so pissed at him I deleted his number from my phone and still nothing. He hasn't texted me like at all since that first "fight". And just for reference I'm well past finals so it's been a few months since I've seen him. What should I do about him? Just forget about him since I can't seem to trust him for anything? Despite all this he's been the best friend I've had in years (I was kinda banking on the fact that he WOULD be my new best friend since I haven't had one for four years) and I kinda miss him which is why I wanna know. 
Ok so I had enough and confronted him over text again. (he texted me on christmas which is how I got his number again) His explaination to everything? His sexuality never changed! He's still gay. He just didn't want to admit that he was just USING this girl to get the kids at school off his back. He didn't even know they "broke up" or that she had another boyfriend. Ugh, I give up with him. Thanks for your help though.
