Those "dumb morals" are derived from the same feelings that tell us it's wrong to hurt or kill people. For a great deal of society, it's not just some silly "norm" that has been blindly accepted for years, it's a serious issue because of the damage that can be done to a person's confidence/self-esteem/emotional well-being.
And also, just because something isn't intended to hurt doesn't mean it doesn't, can't or won't hurt.
As a side note: It would be extremely selfish to disregard your significant other's feelings and cheat just because it's not a big deal to you.
Maybe it is possible to love more than one person romantically -- I wouldn't know -- but even if you could love two people in that sense, why would you want to hurt either one of them by pretending yours are the only feelings that matter?
Hello, my name is Mary! I'm ethnically confusing for many, but I hail from Canada. I'm quippy. :-)I will never be unnecessarily rude to you, or condescending. I will treat you like an adult if you want so badly to be treated like one -- which means holding you accountable and responsible for your actions/mistakes if necessary. Just because you have the freedom to say what you want does not mean you are free from criticism.
I am 21, and taken (as of Dec. 1, 2007). The boyfriend's name is Neill and he is 23 years old and he lives in Ireland. Yes, it is long-distance. If I believe in nothing else, I believe in him. He likes my sunshiny-ness.
I love sexual humour and I love having sex. I also love pie.
[my silly irishman and me]
"I sunk your heart-shaped battleship. :-)"
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