Fooling Around

[MeGanMarIe]

Hey Ladies. I need just one answer. Whens the right time to loose the big V? I live in a small town and ik when everyone else has but when do YOU think the right time or age is?

[Selo94]

This is a very hard question to answer, as the time is right for different people. I would give you a few pointers to think about:

• Be at least 13 or 14. I don't want to say there's a "minimum" age, but I feel anything below 13 is too young. Many people will say older. You at least want to be physically full grown, done with puberty, and be able to emotionally handle it - often this will be earlier for girls than guys. I was ready as I approached 15, but I'd say before your teenage years there's no way.
• Do not be under the influence of any substances. Trust me on this. I know a lot people lost it drunk, but it is so much better if you are totally aware and alert. Drugs mess with your senses and memory. I'm certain losing the big V will feel better physically and emotionally if you can remember and feel everything.
• Do it with someone you know and at least like. I won't preach about being in love, but you will regret anything with a guy you don't know well, or if you don't really like him. Whatever your relationship is - friends, dating, FWBs, whatever - make sure he's not a stranger and that you know him well enough to be happy about your choice.
• Use protection. This is a given. Unless you're married to each other and are planning on doing it to have children, you don't want to take any risks.

Just a few things to think about. I think anyone who doesn't follow at least these rules will regret her choice someday. No relationship is perfect and it's hard to tell if your first time will be everything you want, but there's no substitute for beaing ready.

[dancer2468]

Well I think it shud be when ur older.. I personally lost mine at 19 but I cudda done it at like 16. High scho age.. But for an individual.. If u have to ask if it's the right time.. It's not

[Jennifersbody]

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Selo94 wrote:

This is a very hard question to answer, as the time is right for different people. I would give you a few pointers to think about:

• Be at least 13 or 14. I don't want to say there's a "minimum" age, but I feel anything below 13 is too young. Many people will say older. You at least want to be physically full grown, done with puberty, and be able to emotionally handle it - often this will be earlier for girls than guys. I was ready as I approached 15, but I'd say before your teenage years there's no way.
• Do not be under the influence of any substances. Trust me on this. I know a lot people lost it drunk, but it is so much better if you are totally aware and alert. Drugs mess with your senses and memory. I'm certain losing the big V will feel better physically and emotionally if you can remember and feel everything.
• Do it with someone you know and at least like. I won't preach about being in love, but you will regret anything with a guy you don't know well, or if you don't really like him. Whatever your relationship is - friends, dating, FWBs, whatever - make sure he's not a stranger and that you know him well enough to be happy about your choice.
• Use protection. This is a given. Unless you're married to each other and are planning on doing it to have children, you don't want to take any risks.

Just a few things to think about. I think anyone who doesn't follow at least these rules will regret her choice someday. No relationship is perfect and it's hard to tell if your first time will be everything you want, but there's no substitute for beaing ready.

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13 or 14 is WAY too young.   No 13 or 14 year old is ready for sex, I dont care how mature you think you are, it is way too early.  16 is probably the earliest a girl should consider sex, and even that may be early.   

[prima_resa11]

The "right time" is different for different people. However, you should feel emotionally mature enough to go ahead and lose your virginity. Also, if suppose something happens? Would you have the money for morning after pills? It all depends on you although I do feel as if a person should at least be 17. Maturity is most important, though.

[PrettyAtTimes]

When you don't have to ask others if you're ready.