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02-17-2013 04:01 PM - edited 02-17-2013 04:04 PM
So my older sister who is abut 16, im 14, was having a big sleepover with about 6 girls and 8 guys. At about 1 am, (my parents werent home) i heard cursing and loud moaning comming from the room they were in. I opened the door and they were all having sex. I left and came in with just my underwear on. A guy came over to me and took it all off. They had ass sex and had vagina sex me. I ave them bjs and hjs, and i was eaten out. I also had sex with a couple of the girls and i ate them out. I took a dildo and started **bleep**ing my sister and she sucked my vagina and this went of for about 3 hours. It all felt to GOOD! also, i was in the school bathroom after schoo, and 3 of my guy friends walked in because they knew i was in there. i ave one of them a handjob, then they took my clothes off and i sucked one of their dicks while i got it in the ass from one and in the vigina from the other. No one walked in, so ive done that about 10 times with them. My sister had another sleepover like the last one with my parents out of town, and i went in and had sex with her and them again. What do i do? Im only 14 and ive had sex with like 15 guys and overall about 20 times? since them i had sex with 6 other guys in my class. am i a slut? what do i do about all that? it feels so good! i dont want to stop but what do i do? I also finger myslef for guys and girls and i masturbate a lot. I also do webcam fingering and stuff for guys i know
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02-17-2013 05:02 PM
I'm going to try and be as delicate as possible because you sound very confused. One thing you need to know is that having sex with your SISTER is a little messed up. It's illegal for one and gross. I'm sorry but it's the truth. Two having sex with so many people is very dangerous. You could get STDs and die! I know it feels good, trust me, I KNOW. But you have to try and hold yourself back. Masturbating is a way to do that and totally fine. Its fun and relieves stress. Get some toys or finger yourself, try the bathtub method. It's probably best not to do in front of other people. If you really need to do it in front of other people do it on that random anonymous chat thing. Try your hardest not to go to those ORGIES your sister is hosting. It's tempting but find a way to not go. Tell your parents what she's doing or something. I'm sorry your struggling with this. I know I wish I could have sex with whoever I want just because but it is dangerous and would probably get weird or stuff.
02-17-2013 05:10 PM
Not sure if this post is real or not and just in November you said you were 12 turning 13 in 2 months but now 3 months later you are 14?
Anyways since you are only 14 I'd suggest to probably stop having sex at least with so many people. Also especially if you are having sex with multiple people make sure you are using protection against both pregnany and STDs/STIs. Though also remember no protetction is 100% so you have to think about the consequences and what you would do if they arose and how you would deal with them etc.
Even though I don't like labels especially "slut" there is definately a lot of people who would call you that. Not to mention that Incest (sex with family) is highly looked down upon in today's society. You should really hold yourself to a higher standard. Guys are going to start using you, you are going to get hurt especially emotionally, girls will start causing a lot of drama and spreading vicious rumors about you etc.
You also can get in a lot of trouble with your school and your parents and probably even the law since you are underage. Also I have done webcam stuff myself and have no problem with it but I know most girls don't think of the consequences and couldn't handle them if they happened to them. Anyone can easily be taking screen shots or recording the screen and then use the photos and videos to black mail you or just spread them out to everyone that knows you as well as everyone that doesn't on the internet etc. Your friends, your family, your school, etc. So unless you are fine with your parent's, grandparent's, teachers, principal, classmates, enemies, friends, etc seeing you do that stuff I would suggest you stop.
Yes sex feels good but that is what masturbation is for. So I'd suggest just to continue masturbating and watch porn and such if you want too.
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02-17-2013 05:15 PM - edited 02-17-2013 05:18 PM
Holy sh*t. You really should not be having sex at 14 first of all, but since damage has already been done, you need to go to the gynecologist and get yourself checked out to make sure you don't have any STD's (be aware that you don't always show symptoms). You really were not using your head when you were sleeping with your sister and more than a handful of guys and girls. I'm going to blunt here, that is disgusting and with your sister it's incest. So so gross and wrong. I'm 21 and have slept with only 2 guys, both I was in committed relationships with and I know they loved me and we were safe. I'm not judging you, so don't take this the wrong way, but obviously your sister isn't being responsible or leading you down the right path and you need someone to help you. Don't keep doing what you're doing - for one it's not safe, and you don't want to get a reputation for being a slut or known as the girl who sleeps around with everyone. You're a young girl and girls need to be appreciated and loved, not used for sex. Don't waste your teenage years doing this. Explore yourself, masturbate, all that is fine and good. You're too young to be doing anything else. You don't want to ruin the rest of your life so early on by being 14 and pregnant or 14 with a potentially untreatable STD.
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02-17-2013 11:46 PM - edited 02-17-2013 11:48 PM
02-18-2013 06:43 AM
do whatever you want. if you want to carry on then do... if you don't then say no... i don't understand what your asking.