Fooling Around

[BeautyOnFire]

So my boyfriends has this problem. He started jerking off without lubrication when he was 14. He is now 22, and the tip of his penis apparently lost it's sensitivity. He says that when he has sex, he can't feel it on his head, only on the shaft. We haven't had sex yet, and it's mainly because I'm worried that I won't be able to please him. He says he's gonna stop jerking off and use the Fleshlight whenever he gets horny, hopefully to regain some of his sensitivity, because his hand, being too tight, tighter than a vagina, caused this. He says that not one girl he's had sex with has been able to make him cum. Making a guy cum has never been an issue for me, I love rocking the guy I'm with's world. But now that it is an issue, I'm nervous to take on the challenge. Any tips or solutions? Anyone else's boyfriend have this problem?

[dancer2468]

well ur gonna have to know its not ur fault. and make it so he is on top and so its his fault if he cant get himself to come..

[x-Juggernaut-x]

Its a shame that you're doubting yourself because of this guy, is he circumsized? because i know if guys are then the tip tends to be less sensitive because its been exposed for a long time and adjusted to rubbing against clothing, maybe if you are concious its going to take more effort than just sex then buy ribbed condoms? 

[BeautyOnFire]

Well, I have asked hi if being on top wold make it better, but he said, although it would somewhat make things better it's still not complete pleasure for him. So I asked if aybe he could pound me out until he came, and he said maybe, but it's still uncertain.He said he's have to go for hours, but I'm okay with that.

He's not circumsized, he just jerked off for years without lube. He says it's called "deathgrip", when the head loses sensitivity. I'm just so nervous. I hope I can do it, maybe if I go for a few hours.

And thank you girls, for replying, it's really comforting.

[coolboy17]

OK, here's a guy's opinion: Do what pleases you. Personally, I get the most pleasure from pleasing my girl and seeing her cum. If I can really please her, it makes my orgasm much better.

[BeautyOnFire]

That is actually what he told me, haha. He said that as long as I'm into it, and he can see that he's pleasing me, then he'll still love it. And although that may be true, I just wish I could find a way to make him cum. But maybe my expressions and moans, aside from the sex, will be enough. Thanks a lot.

[luv2duv]

I showed this to my older brother and he said this is silly. the tip don't lose it's sensitive because the guy jerks it too much. 

[hotjamale]

well, its going to take practice, but im sure you guys will be able to figure out a way for you to be able to get him to cum. And the bright side? He will be able to have sex with you for as long as you want - you wont have the problem of him cumming too quick!
I often wish my boyfriend could keep going, he always has to pull out RIGHT when im about to cum because he says when Im about to have an orgasm all my muscles down there start vibrating and tensing and he cant handle it hahaha so at least you wont have that issue!!

[BeautyOnFire]

Actually, Luv2duv, everybody is different, and different people have different bodily reactions to things. We've recently done research together, and it's actually more common than you'd think. So before you try to call my post "silly" do some actual research of your own, and I don't think your brother counts as that. But thanks for your contribution. 

And Hotjamale, yeah, haha, I guess that's a plus xD He'll probably be able to go way longer than me xD Maybe he'll get some pleasure from my muscle contractions when I cum. Thanks a lot