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10-17-2012 05:27 PM
I thought when an uncircumcised guy got hard the foreskin gets pulled back on its own as the penis gets harder but I am hearing on gURL and on other websites that you sometimes need to pull it back for them.
Is that true or do you only have to pull it back only for certain guys, like if they have a really long foreskin?
And if you are giving a hj to an uncut penis can you sometimes hurt them if the foreskin doesnt move up and down, like can it get caught on the head and bend or hurt them?
10-17-2012 06:04 PM
I'm pretty sure you don't need to pull it back yourself, as in most cases it slides behind on its own, the way nature intended.
But unfortunately I had a boyfriend once for whom it didn't really go back, hardly at all, and that made everything painful for him. It's a terrible shame, and probably the reason he could never orgasm. In most cases though your guy should be okay. If you have any doubt, ask him.
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10-23-2012 05:52 PM
I have seen those educational erection videos and the foreskin pulls back on its own, but then you hear on sex ed sites about guys having trouble with it retracting on its own. I am sure if I was with a guy and it needed to be pulled back he would hopefully say something.
Gossiping about foreskin is kind of common and you hear all sorts of true and untrue things.
10-24-2012 01:39 PM
You can give a hj moving the foreskin or rubbing the head directly with some lube. I mean it's really gonna depend on the guy what he likes and doesn't. So you'll have to play around with them and experiment
10-26-2012 10:47 PM
Any idea if guys like it being played with or are they self concious about it? I think, even if a guy is a little shy as long as what I would be doing feels good to him they would like it. Is that how it goes?
My friends say its a hide and seek thing when it comes to the head and their foreskin.
10-27-2012 03:46 AM
make sure u can pull the foreskin all the way back. If a guy can't do tht then it means he can't clean under the foreskin n its yucky becoz there is this cheesy smelly horrible stuff under the foreskin. Guys luv wen u suck there dick wit the foreskin pulled back . Guys dicks r more sensitive wen they have their foreskin.
Make sure you can push the foreskin all the way back. If you can't, then dont give the guy a BJ. I am serious. The first guy I tried givin a blow job was a year younger than me and he had never pulled his foreskin back. It was yucky and soooo smelly I nearly puked. He was cute but OMG his dick was "crusty and smelly"..lol..