Fooling Around

[smittles26]

So me and this guy have been talking and later he became my bf and he had been wantin to meet for a long time and then recently we did meet and it was like below 20 degrees outside and I was freezing and was shivering so much. When we saw each other he was kinda of distance and then certainly he went to the store and bought some condoms nd I was shocked after that we went to the beach under a bridge and he wanted to have sex and I wasnt comfortable with it, he suddenly told me to bend over and started pushin me and I was resisting to and he told me to grab his thing nd put it inside me but I didn't want to do that then he told me to lay down nd it was very dirty but that didn't work either, he then told me to give him a bj I said no I wouldn't after that we left and he didn't talk to me the whole way nd kept walk faster then me. When I got home he texted me sayin that he is breakin up wth me becus we didnt have sex and I didn't give him a bj the awkward moment was that I have his hat and that means that I have to see him again. I think that we was being a complete jerk nd really don't want to see him again but I kinda still like him it has been botherin me for a long time. Should I try to work I out HELP!!!!

[beccsx0x]

What a jackass. Don't see him again. If he wants his hat, tell him you'll leave it in your mailbox and he can move his ass to get it that day, otherwise you're chucking it out.

Definitely DO NOT TRY to work it out with him. You're better off without him in your life- he clearly doesn't respect you whatsoever, and only wanted you to use you as a piece of ass. You're nothing to him- he should be nothing to you as well.

[hotjamale]

hmmm I think he did you a huge favour by breaking up with you. And by that, I mean to say he's a really big di ck who only knows how to think with his little head and not his big one Screw the hat, if he wants his hat, HE can come to YOU.

That guy actually sounds kind of dangerous to me, and I'm really glad it's over between you two before he (successfully) forced you to do something you don't want to do. You definitely should  not try to work it out between you two.

[alegnatm]

I don't know if I would call this embarrassing, I would call it abusive. 

From your post it sounds like you met this guy online and then when you met him in person and this is what happened. This is a very bad situation to put yourself in, do not see this guy ever again, he can buy another hat.

And if you do decide to meet someone in real life that you met online you should meet them in a public place with a lot of people around, like a coffee shop or restraunt.

You put yourself into a very risky situation by secluding yourself with him when going under a bridge. You are lucky that it didn't escalate and he didn't rape you. 

Any man that says he won't date you because he won't have sex with him is not a good guy, and he just wants to have sex. 

[mandakim]

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smittles26 wrote:
So me and this guy have been talking and later he became my bf and he had been wantin to meet for a long time and then recently we did meet and it was like below 20 degrees outside and I was freezing and was shivering so much. When we saw each other he was kinda of distance and then certainly he went to the store and bought some condoms nd I was shocked after that we went to the beach under a bridge and he wanted to have sex and I wasnt comfortable with it, he suddenly told me to bend over and started pushin me and I was resisting to and he told me to grab his thing nd put it inside me but I didn't want to do that then he told me to lay down nd it was very dirty but that didn't work either, he then told me to give him a bj I said no I wouldn't after that we left and he didn't talk to me the whole way nd kept walk faster then me. When I got home he texted me sayin that he is breakin up wth me becus we didnt have sex and I didn't give him a bj the awkward moment was that I have his hat and that means that I have to see him again. I think that we was being a complete jerk nd really don't want to see him again but I kinda still like him it has been botherin me for a long time. Should I try to work I out HELP!!!!

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You should consider yourself to be really lucky that he broke up with you. 

Do you realise how dangerous the situation was? You couldve been bashed and raped or maybe even worse!

never ever ever ever......and ill say it again in case you missed it......NEVER EVER EVER EVER meet some guy you met on the internet unless you have all your friends, family, grandparents ...and the dog with you.....and then only do it in the most public place you can find.

if i were you id throw his hat in the street and watch a gazillion trucks run over it. 

Im pretty sure he wont come looking for it anyway. Hes a possible rapist and i think hes gonna keep his distance from you. I mean he doesnt know if you told your parents ....and being the total jerkoff he is, he wouldnt have the guts to ask for his hat back.

in case you missed it the first or second time im gonna say it again

NEVER EVER EVER EVER meet some stranger off the internet. Next time you could be dead! 

Its happened to girls before and itll probably happen again

[sierra]

He's an asshole. If he wants his hat, leave it on his porch or something, or just keep it. He doesn't deserve you.