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leapbaby29
Posts: 24
Registered: ‎12-15-2011

How Long Do You Wait Before You Give A Guy a Blowjob?

Just started hanging out with this guy. I've known him for 4 months but we just started seeing each other. Just wondering how long each of you girls generally wait until you...

 

Kiss?

Get felt up?

Give a blowjob?

Let him finger you?

Have sex?

 

or anything else you can think of. If you don't have any sort of rules for it, just say how long you waited with your last guy.

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Selo94
Posts: 242
Registered: ‎11-15-2011

Re: How Long Do You Wait Before You Give A Guy a Blowjob?

Kiss? If I really like him I'll kiss on the first date, or even before a "date" when we're just hanging out as friends.

Get felt up? A week or two, I guess. Most guys won't go for it until I do. Again I have to have liked him for a while already.

Give a blowjob? A month I'd say. This is more serious to me and I'd wait until he wants to.

Let him finger you? A couple weeks to a month

Have sex? At least a month, and that's only if I'd had a strong bond and feelings for him before. With the guy for whom we took each other's virginity it was two months. My current BF it will be four.

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jackie94
Posts: 956
Registered: ‎11-15-2011

Re: How Long Do You Wait Before You Give A Guy a Blowjob?

Usually not very long when it comes to blowjobs but that's just me, lol.

 

For all these, it just really depends. It's not like there's a set time. Just go with the flow and do what feels right.

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Annah
Posts: 192
Registered: ‎10-18-2012

Re: How Long Do You Wait Before You Give A Guy a Blowjob?

Kiss?

 

We kissed on our first date. We knew each other for awhile tho.

 

 

 

Get felt up?

 

It was about a few weeks after our first date. Wore a skirt and after school we snuck behind a cafe and let him put his hand up my skirt.

 

 

Give a blowjob?

 

I gave him a blowjob about a few days after that.

 

 

Let him finger you?

 

He fingered me the same day he felt me up.

 

Have sex?

 

We had sex four months later this past October

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catchme
Posts: 1,084
Registered: ‎11-17-2011

Re: How Long Do You Wait Before You Give A Guy a Blowjob?

I don't really gave a set time for a bj, i usually have to really be into the guy for me to go down on him though. I only like doing it to please him and I have to like him a lot to do that, otherwise I won't really do it unless they ask haha.

This is just the current guy I've been seeing...
Kiss? We knew each other for like 2 months
Get felt up? 2 months, like a few days after the kiss lol
Give a blow job? Wasn't until we first had sex, around the 3 month mark
Let him finger you? Same time as when I got felt up, about 2 months
Have sex? 3 months after knowing each other, about 2 weeks into seeing each other

 

This is my fwb btw lol 

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