Fooling Around

[april.teske]

OK so I am so horny all the time!! And me and my boyfriend have kissed and I was his 1st kiss... We've been dating for 1 month and it feels like forever... I feel like we will be together for a long time.... Were really open and stuff and I really wanna do stuff with him but I'm only in 8th grade! And he's a freshmen...But OMG I just wish my hormones didn't start kicking in tell I was like 16! idk what to do cause he's sorta a goody goody...... Hence the 1st kiss as a freshman XD  he told me he jacks off 4 times a week!! And I guess if he does that he's not THAT goody but idk any ideas what to do :/ I'm in a pickle haha

[and_all_that_j…]

While I understand your situation, 1 month really isn't that long.  If you were his first kiss he will need some time to get comfortable and you need to understand that.  Masturbating does not mean that he's ready for physical activity with you, it just means he get horny like everyone else.  Don't rush it - you don't want to move forward when both parties aren't 100% ready, otherwise it won't be a positive experience for either one of you.  

[oneandonly]

If I were in your position I myself would try and wait it out as long as I could. I would date someone for at least a year and a half before doing anything beyond kissing with them since I don't want to get regret giving them anything they don't deserve especially since you guys are still pretty young. I would for sure stick to masturbating for now. If you two make it to the year and a half point you guys have to think about things such as protection, stds where to get tested etc.

[pinkheart]

I can relate to the hormones.  I dont know if there is an easy answer but I think the longer you can keep from starting sex the better.  Do the masturbating thing as long as you can, I think there are a lot of things you can do differntly to keep you interested in it.  One of the best is to get a vibrator and try new things with it.

[SweetMirandasBi]

I'd say definitely stick to masturbating for now...maybe for a long while. Never mind what everybody else is doing as far as having sex . If you want to have a meaningfull relationship respect his decision to not have sex with you yet.