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WiseGurl
TheRiveter
Posts: 14
Registered: ‎01-30-2013

Made fun of at School for sense of style

I have never owned a new shirt or paor of pants. I've never wore Aeropostale or Hollister. I mean, it's not beacause my family's poor or anything. It's just that all of my clothes are hand me downs and from thrift stores, where as my mom's are all new, no offense but I think it's unfair. I actually am made fun of at school for not having new clothes and for not going to the mall and they call me a hippie. I've even begged my mom to let me get just one new shirt. I know it sounds really  stupid, because it is. But if I got something normal like a sweater even I wouldn'tbe made fun of. PLEASE HELP!

WiseGurl
Sharpie-Sensei
Posts: 172
Registered: ‎05-12-2012

Re: Made fun of at School for sense of style

I don't really know what to say. Is your mom not letting you go shopping or something? If so, that's total bullcrap, ecspecially if she's only buying for her and not looking out for you, her child (not trying to bad mouth her or anything.) 

Anywho, don't listen to the kids at school who make fun of you. What I've learned is that people will always find something to talk about you for. If it's not your clothes, it's your shoes or your hair, even your teeth or how you talk. Kids at my school get their clothes talked and we wear a freaking uniform! 

Your style is your own :smileyhappy: There's nothing wrong with thrift clothes or hand-me-downs. I majority of my clothes are from garage sells or used to belong to my mom, sister or cousin. And I'm saving up so I actually can go thrifting downtown.

I don't know if I'm helping any, but talk to your mom and tell her what's up. Maybe even save up a bit of your own money to buy your own stuff if that's the case. 

In the end, style is all about confidence and piecing together what you feel good in. Own it :smileywink:

I hope I've helped in some way.

Tristan Rice
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"Your stinkin' resolution is no type of solution. Preventin' me
from freedom, maintaining your pollution."--Lauryn Hill.

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I know how it feels to think so little of yourself. Even if I
didn't, I still believe everyone should know their self-worth.



WiseGurl
TheRiveter
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Registered: ‎01-30-2013

Just so you know.................. I did what you suggest...

Just so you know..................

I did what you suggested, stated to her cleaely and now I have forfeited allowance and am not allowed on the computer right now so I am being careful I also am grounded for 3 months and my brnd new socks that I got, I don't get new t's but i get new socks were taken away. I never even got to wear them! So there is no solution.

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scuzz
Posts: 924
Registered: ‎11-15-2011

Honestly you should be grateful for having any clothes at...

Honestly you should be grateful for having any clothes at all. I have always worn hand me downs and stuff from thrift stores. I still do almost all my clothes shopping at the salvation army store. Also if you were getting an allowance why don't you save up your own money to spend on stupid brand name clothes? Kids are going to pick on you no matter what and honestly getting picked on for your clothes or being called a hippie isn't really that bad. I got picked on for crap like having a big head (I had hyrdocephalus when I was little) and things I can't physically ever change. Honestly I think clothes like Aeropostale and Hollister are stupid and ugly. It is just a way to say hey look I have a lot of money so I am going to waste it on stupid clothes that just have the name of the brand written really big across the whole thing. Also if you notice you will never see adults wearing that kind of crap just middle schoolers, high schoolers, and some college kids that are idiots and think they are better than everyone else. Mostly if you are still growing it is stupid to waste a lot of money on clothes you won't be able to wear for very long. I also doubt every kid in your grade is wearing aero or hollister crap so why don't you focus on making friends that aren't shallow materialistic jerks.

Sorry if I got a little too snippy or rude sometimes certain topics un knowingly set me off about other things on here. I'm not trying to be a jerk to you I am more just mad about brand name labels and materialistic jerks haha.

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WiseGurl
Sharpie-Sensei
Posts: 172
Registered: ‎05-12-2012

Re: Just so you know.................. I did what you suggest...

Well, not to sound rude, but your mom is just sounding unreasonable and...I don't even know another word, but goodness.

Tristan Rice
Seventeen.Mississippi.Senior 2k13.Artist.Avid Dreamer
"Your stinkin' resolution is no type of solution. Preventin' me
from freedom, maintaining your pollution."--Lauryn Hill.

I like to make people feel good about themselves 'cause
I know how it feels to think so little of yourself. Even if I
didn't, I still believe everyone should know their self-worth.



WiseGurl
kateymae06
Posts: 22
Registered: ‎01-28-2012

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It does sound unfair, but hey hand me downs arent that bad. People are always going to be judging you. But you should try to convince your mom to let you get clothes you want.

NewGurl
rozemaiden
Posts: 5
Registered: ‎02-13-2013

Re: Made fun of at School for sense of style

Right now, I think the only thing you can do is make the best of your situation. Learn how to sew and get handy with DIY'ing all your stuff - you can make a lot of old, vintage, and thrifted clothing look really amazing if you learn to customize it yourself.

 

As for the bullying and teasing at school, that will pass. As soon as you start to ignore them and take pride in what you're wearing and being unique with it, they'll stop because they realize they can't harm you anymore. 

 

Besides, you probably look far more interesting than half the people who shop at the mall stores. ^_^

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rainbowpony16
Posts: 55
Registered: ‎11-02-2012

Re: Made fun of at School for sense of style

Instead of worrying about where your clothes come from, try focusing on using what you have to develop your own sense of style! I do my own shopping, and I find I get more for my money at second hand stores.  Some of my favorite items of clothing came from thrift stores!

Besides, being a Hippie isn't that bad- they were free thinking, inclusive, and artistic.

Kids who want to bully you will find any reason to do it.  They make fun of you for your clothes now, so you 'fix' your wardrobe, so they make fun of your hair, so you get a haircut, so they make fun of your music, so you listen to different music... Next thing you know, you lost yourself to make some d*ckheads at school like you.  Worth it? I hope not.

Ignore their bullying and be yourself! :smileyhappy:

Love <3

NewGurl
Big Gurl14
Posts: 1
Registered: ‎02-17-2013

Re: Made fun of at School for sense of style

 

Hey FYI ur not ugly I saw ur pick u r really pretty they're just jealous of u and they're just bored of they're lives and they wanna do that to try and make u upset... Don't pay attention to them trust me stand up for your self and slap them if u want or can cause that's what I would do but I don't think that u should though but I'm just saying but if u want then go ahead LOL.. TTYL. Bye

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nerf-herder
Posts: 8,362
Registered: ‎11-15-2011

Re: Made fun of at School for sense of style

How bout growing a pair and not giving a sh*t what other people think about your clothes.
I never had new clothes at school, I always got my clothes from hand me downs from my cousins and from thrift stores, because my parents didn't have a lot of money, and it was pointless to waste money on expensive trendy clothes when there was going to be a new trend to keep up with next week, or I was going to grow out of them.
You're Mom can buy new clothes for herself because she knows her sense of style probably isn't going to change in 2 seconds, or she's going to grow three inches over night.
I don't blame her for grounding you because you're being an ungrateful kid. It's not like she's neglecting you, it's not like she's not buying you anything, be grateful for what you have because there's probably some kids that you go to school with who don't even have the luxury of getting what you're taking for granted.
I'm currently 23 and I still do most of my shopping at thrift stores, it's just a better bargain and I honestly have other stuff I'd rather spend my money on.
Your peers are going to find any reason to pick on you, if you had brand new trendy clothes there still going to find something that they can make fun of you for because teenagers are a$$holes, that's just how the world works. In the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter if your t-shirt is from Aeropostale or Good Will.
If you're peers don't like that you don't buy clothes from the mall that's their problem not yours.
So I suggest you apologize to your mother for not being grateful for what you've been given and save up your allowance if you absolutely have to have the exact same sweater from Hollister that everyone else has...because God forbid you be comfortable with being your own person.
I know I probably sound like a jerk right now, but when I was a teenager I had my entitled little princess moments too and I wish I had somebody to come up to me, smack me dead across the face and tell me to knock it off.