Being Single

[yaneth01]

Is it just me or does every girl want to have that satisfaction of knowing that an ex regrets everything they did to you or wants to get back with you or just thinks back & sees how great you were, even if you dont care about them anymore?

[sharn2468]

I kind of feel that but then I start liking them again and forget about everything

[jamiee33]

i think this all the time. sometimes i try to excentuate the things they said they loved about me whenever im arround them just in hopes that theyll see it and regret the breakup. even though i can be completly over them and have moved on i still want them to want me

[oncewaslost]

hah, I'm DEFINITLY with you on that.

[LittleRedWolf]

I hardly ever think about my ex anymore.  If you're thinking vengeful thoughts, it probably means you aren't totally over them.  In order to trurly move on, you've got to toally let go of everything, even the less pleasant parts.  If I ran into my ex today, I'd just say hey and be polite.  

[Nerds4evah]

omg yes i'm planning for revenge because he told me that my crush liked me and asked me out it sucked.

[BleedingSun]

I'm sure it's normal for you to feel this way - have 2 ex's who I sometimes wish miss me/want me back/regret what they did. I think its a normal self esteem thing, and sometimes a little but about vengeance, depending on the situation. The guys who I want to feel this way (one of whom who does) and my ex that cheated and my ex that was my friend for 2 years, got in my pants, and never talked to me again.

So yeah, I think it's normal, just don't let it make you miserable and get unhealthy.