Being Single

[sweetasia]

Hey girls, I recently wrote a post about how I need to get over this guy I liked after he rejected me. I decided that I want to remain friends with him because dispite everything, he is a good friend and those are hard to come across now a days; and plus i don't want to seem bitter and immature about him not liking me. Anywho, I was just wondering how you ladies feel about staying friends with a guy who rejected you, if you don't agree with it why? And if you do, than how do you go about it?

[BeauJSallday]

For me, I would and probably not remain friends with him. It depends on the situation. If you value the friendship you both have more than anything else then I say remain friends. Of course you're going to always have deep feelings for him but focus on being friends with him if he is interested.  Have hope, if you value the friendship more and choose to be friends with him, he might just realize that you are an amazing person and want to be with you. I'm not saying you are to sit around and wait for him but it's amazing how stuff happen. You could remain friends and some time in the future, if it's meant to be, stuff happen. On the other hand if you believe that you will never get over the fact that he rejected you and you still feel angry or sad then it might be best to not really remain friends because silly arguments that my occur might cause your friendship to not work.

Still, it is up to you to think about what is best for you and go with it.