Being Single

[punk_girrl]

Well, okay. 

I don't know if this classifies as being single or relationship problems, but whatever.

So when I was in 8th grade, I met this guy. He was amazing and everone in my class had a crush on him. It wasn't that he was super good-looking, just his personality and "there was something about him". I liked him a lot and by 10th grade I realized I might love him, so I confessed and he said he liked me back. So yeah, we were this really cute couple and it was awesome. I was a little bit shy cause he was my first kiss, my first boyfriend and it was weird for me. 

That year, my mom told me we had to move to America. So basically change continents. I was devastaded. I started finding excuses to get mad at him and to break up with him. I didn't want to, but I didn't want to get to the point that it would be super hard for me to leave either. So yeah, we dated 3 months. 2 months after, I left. 

Now, almost two years have elapsed, and I still catch myself thinking about him. I feel horrible and I think breaking up was the stupidest think I;ve ever done. But what else was I suppose to do?  I lock myself in my room, listen to sad music and eat nutella out of the jar and think about him. I know he has moved on. He had a girlfriend. (they broke up a couple of months ago --> yay?). Anyways, we still talk and I don't know. I guess I wanted to tell someone.  

If you have any advise or if you've ever been in a situation like this, feel free to comment.

[Babygrlk100]

Just talk to him maybe he feels the same way you do. If both of you feel the same way then maybe a long distance relationship is worth it. If not then maybe you both can just keep in touch and when one of you get old enough you can move back home or he can move to america to be with you. I think you should tell him it was a mistake to break up with him the way you did and explain why you did it. But i think the most important thing is to stay in touch regardless. Hope this helps good luck 

[roselove445]

i think the most important thing to do is just tell him. he may feel the same way. just tell him why you were acting so weird and even if he doesnt care it would still get this big problem off your chest. just be honest with yourself and him. maybe you two could long distance relationship until one of you could move or maybe go to a college in the same contry. sorry ive never been in this situation so i dont know much about what you could do

hope i helped

alex

[cestin_forever]

personally, i think before you broke up with him you could've told him you were moving and could have tried a long distance relationship. maybe it was a good thing you two broke up. but since you still like him a lot tell him. you never know. he might still have feelings for you too. you never know if you dont try

[punk_girrl]

of course, he knew i was moving, but yeah. >.< 

idk, its just too hard for me to tell him. 

but i'll try to. 

Thanks guys.