Being Single

[feisty58]

So.. It seems like every other guy except  the one I like, likes me. I feel sad.. First off I hardly see my crush and when we do see each other nothing happens he justs walks by without a hi or anything. I used to text him but I stopped since I was always the first one to start the conversation, now if I text him he doesn't even respond back. And I see he's hanging out with this girl and well I really liked him.. I feel lonely and confused half the time. I think I'm stuck IN a rut. I haven't dated anyone since feb. 2012.. This Was helpful.

[firestorm104 · Accepted solution]

if your crush has been ignoring you or found someone else, the best thing you can do right now is move on from it. don't worry about how long it's been since you've dated someone, who you are and your own personal worth isn't dependant on always having a guy at your side. i know a lot of girls who really enjoy it when they are single (i was for a long time, even over the summer, and hanging out and laughing with my bff made it the best summer of my life lol. don't only focus on finding a guy to love you, love yourself first, then wait until that guy comes along that you want to love too. in the meantime, break your rut and surround yourself with people that make you happy, follow your interests and hobbies, and learn who you really are first a guy can add that extra happiness to your life, but he can't and shouldn't be your sole happiness

[Lylithium]

I think you should let go of him, I know it's hard but it seems to be the best thing to do. Maybe you should try to hang out one time with one these guy that likes you ? You might find someone really nice that you haven't noticed yet because you were too focused on you crush !