Not Pregnant, but Confused

Okay, first off, I'm not even living with my boyfriend yet, and, quite obviously, we aren't married. Nor are we financially stable enough for a baby.

I've always wanted kids of my own. That's nothing new to me. What is new, however, is the sudden feeling of "Maybe I don't want kids. But I do want kids. But I don't want kids, but I do." See my problem?

Any of you girls had this dilemma before? What advice do you have?

Maybe I'm just over-thinking it, but this doubt came up in me out of nowhere.

I think it's normal to have doubts, having a baby is a pretty big deal.
When I was younger, in my teens, I always thought I would have children. I am 25 now and some days I feel like I want to have at least one child in the future and other days I think it's not for me.

 

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