Okay so I didn't bleed my first time and it didn't hurt either. I'm not really sure what a cherry is but I'm pretty sure mine didn't "pop". I also haven't orgasmed out of all the times I have had sex, (which isn't a lot but isn't a few times). Is something wrong with me? Please help me :(
Your hymen can break through a lot of things like inserting tampons or riding horses or things like that. As for it not hurting, lucky! lol. I'd say you were turned on enough that it didn't hurt. be glad it didn't 'cause it can hurt like a bitch. and I can't tell you from experience because this is all fairly new to me but I've heard a lot of girls say sex isn't enjoyable until after a while. just hang in there! Nothing's wrong with you, darling. (:
There is definitely nothing wrong with you! Many girls don't bleed or have pain, and as for 'popping the cherry' (really just breaking the hymen), this could have already happened, so there is nothing to worry about! Also, with orgasms, many people don't orgasm from sex alone, and I know that it took quite a few times before I even started enjoying sex at all.
Don't worry about it, you're completely normal :)
there is a small percentage of the population that is born without a hymen. maybe you're one of the lucky few. as for never orgasming during sex, this is because when a guy's penis is inside you it's not hitting the sensitive spot that can create an orgasm, your clitoris. i very very rarely orgasm from sex alone, my boyfriend usually gets me off with his hand or mouth. you are completely normal, unfortunately sex is not at all like it is in the movies with couples orgasming together and having a helluva time :smileyhappy:
I didn't bled when i first had sex and it didn't hurt, don't worry its not uncommon.
As for not orgasaming that is VERY common. Girls do find it hard to orgasm through sex.
I didnt start orgasming through sex untill i had sex with more experienced guys and i got in a relationship and we started experiementing with positions ect.
Something else you can try is to rub your clit while you have sex :)
If I remember right, I didn't bleed the first time, but the second time I had sex. I forget after five years. Anyway, like others have mentioned, your hymen can be broken in other ways. Tampons, rough sports, etc.
And I have never orgasmed from sex, so that's not weird either.
I didn't bleed my first time having sex either, then again I'm pretty sure I broke my hymen when I fell onto my bike when I was seven. I also used a dildo before I had sex for the first time to try to get my vagina ready for it, haha. It still hurt LIKE HELL, it actually hurt pretty considerably my first six or seven times having sex. But everyone is differen't, for some women sex hurts a lot their first time, and for others it's painless.
And no, there's nothing wrong with you from not orgasming through sex. Lots of women can't orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. I've sex a billion times and never orgasmed through just vaginal penetration. It takes a guy who knows what he's doing for sex to be pleasurable at all actually. Luckily Todd and I have great sex :)
A lot of girls don't bleed their first time.
Also, most women can't orgasm from sex alone. you need clitoral stimulation - most women orgasm from oral sex or having their clit rubbed, not from sexual intercourse.
you are completely normal.
A lot of girls (most girls) can't orgasm from just penetration- you might need to rub your clit or do something else to help you out while you're having sex! :)
And pain the first time is subjective- everyone's different. Some people are in terrible pain, and others (the lucky ones! haha) don't feel any pain at all. I wouldn't worry about it. :)
ok in november the night before my birthday me and ex had sex. it was my first time i only hurt when riding him it popped it was alot pain but then it felt good and we contunined and he got on top. as for orgasism some time you don't. hell i scared me ex the first cause i orgasismed and i stopped my breathing for minute and my eyes rolled back.