[sex drive] What's wrong with me?

Hello, everyone!
I have a low sex drive, whilst my boyfriend has a higher sex drive. I'm not taking any medication, no birth control, I don't have depression or anxiety. I'm insecure, but I'm very comfortable and confident with my lover. Why am I not a horny/have-a-high-sex-drive person???

Not all people have a high sex drive. I know some people where their sex drive is so high it's all they want all the time and I know some people with such a low sex drive that it is like they don't have a sex drive at all. Everyone is different. So you not being a high sex drive person is just a part of who you are.

Really? I'm 18 (going to be 19 soon) and people my age group are usually talking about sex which made me think that there's something wrong with me.

there's nothing wrong with you.? like lemon said...everyone is different.

I think I'm the same. I've never had a high sex drive. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we just recently started doing anything sexual. There's nothing wrong with you. If it really bothers you, you could probably talk to a doctor? I'm sure there's medicine or something. Does your boyfriend act strange when you talk to him about it? Does he ever get upset when you say no, or if you're not really in the same mood he is?

I have talked to him about this and he's not embarrassed at all. Honestly, I just try to be enthusiastic and that seems to work well for me. If i don't want to, then I'll help him.?

shutupsusan, You are just different ... like me ;-)

As everyone has said, we all are different, as different as I have blue eyes and yours could be green or brown. I don't think there's anything wrong with having a higher or lower sex drive... more simple words, there will always be people who are hornier than us haha. You should not worry but if this is really bothering you, ask a professional like your doctor


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