Am I boring?

Yesterday on our anniversary my boyfriend asked me if he could get a new bitch and have me be the boring sidebitch. I asked him if he was kidding and he said he wasn't and that unlike me she'll let him fuck her. (i'm waiting until marriage to have sex). He's called me boring in a way before, he said that I'm never interesting.I thought he was reffering to me as a person and my personality in general and i'm still not sure what he meant by boring and not interesting. I then asked him why he feels like im boring because I didn't think he did. He usually laughs a lot and looks like he's happy around me. He said it's because i'm always saying no to sending nudes or doing anything sexual. After a heated argument I ended up telling him i'll never ever talk to him again because my feelings were hurt. The saddest part is that it was our anniversary. Two days ago I asked him why he was starting to say "you're so fucking annoying" a lot and if he was just playing with me and he said he wasn't. He told me that he doesn't care if I don't talk to him ever again and that he doesn't want me to which made me kinda sad because I can't really stay mad or upset at someone for long. I end up missing the person and apologizing even if I didn't do anything wrong. But he's acting like he doesn't care about me at all. I can't seem to stop thinking about or let go of him. I miss him already but i know if i go back i'll be hurt by him again and I don't think he wants to talk to me or even cares.I think the reason why I feel this way is because he is sort of my best friend. He was the only person I could be completely myself around and the only person who got to see who I actually was so it hurt when he said those things. Now that he's gone I feel like i don't have anybody else. I feel so lonely. I keep telling myself I was fine before I met him so I will be fine without him but it's harder than it sounds and I miss him already.What should i do?

It doesn't matter if you're boring or not, he has no reason to be acting this way. He's being an overall jerk and it would be best for you to start moving on. I know it hurts, but he's no good and you deserve better.

He sounds like an abusive guy waiting to happen.? He values a girl as a b****??

So you're not ready to be sexual or send nudes?? That's life and since he can't accept that, he's not worthy of you at all. ? If either of you are minors, having nudes could be deemed as child porn...........??

Let's say he chills out and wants to be your best friend, don't do it.?

This sounds awful if not emotionally abusive - he is trying to get under your skin. Even if you consider him your best friend, friendships don't always last like relationships. No matter how much you miss him, you need to remember what he did and said because you can't just think about the nice times and go back to him. You deserve much more than that.

I think you are better off without him regardless of your answer but, how old are you?

 

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