How do I prove I'm not cheating....

My boyfriend went out of town for a few days and when he came back and we had sex he said my vagina felt raw (which happens sometimes after rough sex and idk why) and therefore I must've had sex with someone while he was gone. I honestly did not cheat and cant explain why my vagina felt different. He refuses to confront the issue. Everything I read online says to sit down and talk. I tried, but it turned into a huge fight because he refused to talk about it and shut down so then I got upset and so on... He says I never shut up and am always bitching and so on. However, I'm just trying to bring up a real issue and I'm not trying to fight but he wont talk about it so it turns into one because I refuse to give up then he ends up being mean and spiteful when I'm just trying to fix our relationship! He says he just wants to ignore it but still genuienly thinks I cheated. I dont understand why he is dealing with it this way or why he does not trust me (I have never cheated or anything else significantly shitty). Also how is me trying to talk through our problems that so obviously matter translates to me just bitching in his eyes!? I love him to death but jesus this sucks.
Also, some background info, he was on anxiety medication and got off it a few months ago and he used to be paranoid and spiteful and mean all the time and we fought constantly, but after he got on welbutrin and I got some hormone inbalences figured out it was a lot better. So maybe that could be a part of it? He hasnt gone to therapy or a psychiatrist since.?

 

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